Finding it hard to cope!

[BigFoot1980]

I am sorry in advance for the rant. Today I am finding it really hard to cope. I feel so alone. I don't know how to go on any more.

I feel stuck, not only because of this TTC thing but my life in general. I guess because I have put my life on hold because of this stupid TTC thing. Why can't I accept things and move on. Why do I have to have hope every month.

I was doing so well lately, helping out my friends who are pregnant listening to them talking about there problems and looking at there ultrasounds and being happy for them and now I just don't feel like being around anyone at all.


Sorry I know I am being stupid and selfish but I can't help myself.

 

[BabyChristie]

I didn't want to read and run. I'm sorry you are feeling so low at the moment and I think you have been very strong being happy for your friends, that in itself is hard. We all feel like this sometimes - I'm having a down evening myself today.

All I can say is - thousands and thousands of women have been down this road before us and have succeeded. We are just unlucky in that it takes us longer, but we have to believe that we will get there in the end. I'm sure that sometime soon, your friends will be sitting listening to your pregnancy problems. Don't lose the hope - until we have our little bundle, which will hopefully be soon, it's all that we have.

xx

 

[honeyz]

Hiya bigfoot, well i think we crossed paths before when i was askin about taking the puregon injections on a cancelled iui, well I did take them and needless to say as usual nothing happend, well something did and that was- AF reared her ugly head. So jst to keep u posted im 39 and never been pregnant and trying since 1996, can you believe iv never used any form of contraception. Anyway enough about me, here's the thing. As I was driving to my yet another iui scan today and wondering why on earth I keep putting my self through this a thought came to me. I keep trying because I still have HOPE. No matter if things dont work we keep wishing and trying because even though we tell our selves not to get our hopes up somewhere deep deep inside there is a glimmer of hope that this time might be my turn, it jst might work.
So heres the thing big foot, as long as we dont hit the menopause we still have HOPE cling on to that and be grateful that atleast your not beyond the stage where you can still try and do something. Imagine how people feel when they are told that there is no and never will be any chance of ever falling pregnant. Thank God that you are still in with a chance, and even though another AF arrives, Atleast you have an AF which = you can still try SO BIGFOOT UR STILL IN THE RACE YOU HAVNT LOST .

 

[Aphrodite]

I know how you feel hunni, we've all been there. All my DHs friends in his mates group are all about to become Fathers. People keep saying really insensitive things to himlike, Come on, when ru gonna have kids, not firing blanks are you?

Im having a tough time myself-Hubbys job not too secure, my cousin just committed suicide-now all this I feel my heads about to explode.

Dont feel selfish hunni-What more noble desire than to bring a child into the world to love? I have to tell myself I will have a baby one day, and when it arrives, it will be all the more joyful and happy than anyone who hasn't been through all this. We are the special ones- We have the strength to cope with this somewhere. You will get there. Major hugs!!!!

 

[BigFoot1980]

Hiya bigfoot, well i think we crossed paths before when i was askin about taking the puregon injections on a cancelled iui, well I did take them and needless to say as usual nothing happend, well something did and that was- AF reared her ugly head. So jst to keep u posted im 39 and never been pregnant and trying since 1996, can you believe iv never used any form of contraception. Anyway enough about me, here's the thing. As I was driving to my yet another iui scan today and wondering why on earth I keep putting my self through this a thought came to me. I keep trying because I still have HOPE. No matter if things dont work we keep wishing and trying because even though we tell our selves not to get our hopes up somewhere deep deep inside there is a glimmer of hope that this time might be my turn, it jst might work.
So heres the thing big foot, as long as we dont hit the menopause we still have HOPE cling on to that and be grateful that atleast your not beyond the stage where you can still try and do something. Imagine how people feel when they are told that there is no and never will be any chance of ever falling pregnant. Thank God that you are still in with a chance, and even though another AF arrives, Atleast you have an AF which = you can still try SO BIGFOOT UR STILL IN THE RACE YOU HAVNT LOST .

Thank you so much! I do remember you asking about puregon injections and I am really sorry that it didn't work out. I really hope it happens for you this
time.

Thanks for your support, I really do feel better now. Sometimes I guess we need some one to pull us out.

 

[BigFoot1980]

I know how you feel hunni, we've all been there. All my DHs friends in his mates group are all about to become Fathers. People keep saying really insensitive things to himlike, Come on, when ru gonna have kids, not firing blanks are you?

Im having a tough time myself-Hubbys job not too secure, my cousin just committed suicide-now all this I feel my heads about to explode.

Dont feel selfish hunni-What more noble desire than to bring a child into the world to love? I have to tell myself I will have a baby one day, and when it arrives, it will be all the more joyful and happy than anyone who hasn't been through all this. We are the special ones- We have the strength to cope with this somewhere. You will get there. Major hugs!!!!

I am really sorry to hear about your cousin. It must be so sad for you.
I hope something works out for your DH in his job as well. That must be an additional pressure.

It must be hard to hear for your DH to hear such comments, people can sometimes be insensitive without even realizing it.

I hope things work out for all of us.

Thanks

 

[BigFoot1980]

I didn't want to read and run. I'm sorry you are feeling so low at the moment and I think you have been very strong being happy for your friends, that in itself is hard. We all feel like this sometimes - I'm having a down evening myself today.

All I can say is - thousands and thousands of women have been down this road before us and have succeeded. We are just unlucky in that it takes us longer, but we have to believe that we will get there in the end. I'm sure that sometime soon, your friends will be sitting listening to your pregnancy problems. Don't lose the hope - until we have our little bundle, which will hopefully be soon, it's all that we have.

xx

Thanks Hun! I hope you feel better soon as well.