Fingers and sex (iykwim)

[chele]

Ok I'm just going to say it

Does anyone find being fingered now during sex makes them tense up and feel really odd, just like a flashback to having an internal during labour?

I just can't have it done anymore

 

[kate1984]

sorry just had to say how much this has made me laugh and I never thought about it, but im now thinking this might not be happening now after i have had the baby lol

 

[xerinx]

Ive got to say im the same!! Its horrible and i hate it... my sex life is rubbish now! And i had a section

 

[mrsraggle]

We haven't even ventured there yet! My lochia stopped... and then my first period came and it's lasting FOREVER.

 

[Jellyt]

Yeah I get really tense! It brings it all back and I can hardly let him touch me. I keep clamping my legs shut lol. My sex life pretty much sucks right now.

 

[chele]

Glad it's not just me then!

 

[KatiePC]

I found the internal exam worse than the birth itself, the pain was unreal with that!! I'm yet to get my leg over with the bleeding still going, but it's an interesting point!