First 2WW after a loss

[parkgirl]

I'm only 3DPO and it's driving me nuts already. This is going to be a long 2WW. It will keep me occupied charting my temp every day. Anyone else in their first 2ww after loss?

 

[thepurlqueen]

My first just ended today, as af showed her ugly face. We didn't really try too hard this time, because I wanted to wait a cycle, but even still I was disappointed today. I'm going to be a basketcase this month.

 

[parkgirl]

Sorry the witch got you this month, theprulqueen. FX for you next cycle.

 

[essie0828]

Any one have a time machine I can borrow? LOL. I am also in the first TWW since a mc at 16w. I should start testing Aug 1. Cant wait to see another BFP, hope this one can make it past 15w. Good luck ladies.

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Yep, on CD23 today and going nuts. Even moreso because I had EWCM today, what the?!? I have fairly regular cycles too, no PCOS or anything so if I am ovulating this late it's sooooo strange.

 

[lynnb]

I'm 4DPO & going nuts too, trying not to get my hopes up too much

FX'd that we all get our soon

 

[Mrs.Mommy]

Im 3do (actually 4 dpo but I havent gone to bed yet) after a chemical last month. My first positive after a tubal reversal..

 

[parkgirl]

Nice to know I'm not the only one going nuts right now. Wish there was some magical way to test super early, but I guess my patients must be tested once again. I'm not exactly sure when to expect AF really. I ended up Oing a few days after I normally do, which I hear is normal after MC. FF says don't test until the 31st. I think I'll go crazy if I wait that long and af hasn't shown.

 

[lynnb]

I'm def going crazy, went & bought 3 hpts today & now I just have this urge to POAS

 

[parkgirl]

lynnb- That's why I try not to keep any in the house. Too tempting to use them when they are only a few steps away.

 

[prgirl_cesca]

I got really drunk last night out with my friends and I feel so awful today for it. I told myself I wasn't going to drink much during the 2WW (other than the odd glass of vino with my husband), but I went to a BBQ with my two pregnant friends, both due a few weeks apart of each other and around BOTH my due dates before my losses. I ended up just drinking to numb my pain, only it makes me feel worse and I ended up crying in the toilet on my own.

So my symptoms are getting stronger - sore boobs, tired, lots of CM etc and I feel even more guilty now. Testing in 6 days.

 

[parkgirl]

prgirl_cesca- That's hard to be around pregnant friends. I'm always torn between being really happy for them and sad/jealous at the same time. Hopefully this will help all of us be more caring and understanding towards other women when we get pregnant. FX for your bfp!

 

[lynnb]

Got up this morning feeling quite nauseous & had quite bad pains, like AF pains, on my way to work & when I when to the toilet I had a spot of brownish cm on my underwear, really hope this is IB & not AF. Knew I shouldn't have bought those hpts yesterday, tempting fate

How is everyone else doing?

 

[parkgirl]

lynnb- I also hope it's IB.


I've been a bit crampy all day today. Lots of CM as well. I usually don't have any this time, so I'm hoping it's a good sign.

 

[lynnb]

Parkgirl, lots of cm is good sign & I think crampy feelings are too, at least I hope they are I've been having them for a few days now.

Really don't want to test until next week but don't think I be able to help myself, might just do 1 on Friday

 

[parkgirl]

There really should be a better way to find out. Making all of us wait until close to AF...sometimes even after she's due to find out.

I really want to wait to test until the 25th. Seems like so far away.

 

[essie0828]

So is lots of cm after you ov an early pregnancy sign? What about loose watery stools? Lol sorry 4 the tmi. Just lookin 2 symptom spot with u ladies.

 

[lynnb]

Essie0828, loose stools could be another sign of pregnancy but could also be caused by prenatal vitamins

 

[mommytoTandE]

I am in my first 2ww after a very early mc last month. Anyone else having lower post O temps this cycle than the previous cycle with the mc? I think I o'd but my temps are a bit lower than a typical post Ovulation. I am not sure when I did O, FF marked the chart (should be attached). I am wondering if I should test this Friday morning.. I am already late for my af.. but this cycle was bound to be messed up (right???)

Good luck ladies - I hope we all get our BFPs this cycle!!!

 

[parkgirl]

I am in my first 2ww after a very early mc last month. Anyone else having lower post O temps this cycle than the previous cycle with the mc? I think I o'd but my temps are a bit lower than a typical post Ovulation. I am not sure when I did O, FF marked the chart (should be attached). I am wondering if I should test this Friday morning.. I am already late for my af.. but this cycle was bound to be messed up (right???)

Good luck ladies - I hope we all get our BFPs this cycle!!!

I ended up Oing late this cycle...but, it is normal for things to be a bit "off" first cycle after MC. I would wait until 12-14 DPO to test. But that's just me. FX for you.


I'm still having a good deal of CM and my temps are still headed up. I'm trying not to get my hopes up...but it's so easy to do.