chocolatechip
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I just want to start by saying that I fully recognize there are many people in here who have been trying for a long time and getting one BFN is small potatoes.
But I'm just surprised at how hard I'm taking this. We are only TTC for one month and then we are taking a break until April. I knew this and that was always the plan. But getting the BFN yesterday (13dpo) really hit me hard. I'm also having AF cramps so I know it's over. I Just don't understand why it's so upsetting. I know most people don't fall pregnant the first try but yesterday I could hardly even keep my composure.
Is the first BFN generally tougher than the second and third?
Sorry for all the whining. Just feeling super blue.
But I'm just surprised at how hard I'm taking this. We are only TTC for one month and then we are taking a break until April. I knew this and that was always the plan. But getting the BFN yesterday (13dpo) really hit me hard. I'm also having AF cramps so I know it's over. I Just don't understand why it's so upsetting. I know most people don't fall pregnant the first try but yesterday I could hardly even keep my composure.
Is the first BFN generally tougher than the second and third?
Sorry for all the whining. Just feeling super blue.