First miscarriage advice & stories

[Cassandra]

Hi I recently had an early miscarriage and I hadn’t realized I was even pregnant, this has dramatically affected me because this is a lot of firsts for me as I am still a young adult in college. I feel very guilty not knowing I was pregnant until after the miscarriage and was just hoping for some advice, tips, stories or anything really to help me feel like Im not alone in this journey. Thank you to anyone who is kind enough of to respond

 

[Chickybaby]

So sorry for your loss. Most definitely not alone. Most of us who have been through a loss deal with some form of guilt I think and I am sorry you are feeling that way. This is a process and will take some time to heal but you will pull through. Us women are incredibly strong. I hope you are able to find some support, this is a safe place to talk candidly about anything. Please feel free to reply with any thoughts or questions, loss sucks. Xx

 

[Hrtbroken16]

Hi,
I just had my first miscarriage and passed my baby on the 16th of November. I didn't even know I was pregnant either, and when I found out I was overjoyed. Unfortunately, it was not the time and so I am still coming to grips with my loss. All I can say is take your time to heal. There is no right way to feel better, but eventually, we will. Mine just happened and I'm sad, angry, hurt over it. But I have to keep going. I have to be strong. Just don't deny yerself the time to grieve. ❤

 

[Luna1723]

I’m so sorry for your loss I also had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy 4 months ago. I went through so many emotions pure shock, joy then devastation when i was told at my ultrasound that there was no heartbeat, then having to wait a week to confirm.

There’s no easy way through it, i’m trying to stay positive. Although i’m heartbroken i’m taking solace in the fact that i know i can get pregnant so many people try for so long without any success. i guess things just weren’t right this time.

hope you have plenty of love and support x

 

[Kalgal1991]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't believe it's any easier even if you didn't know you were pregnant. You are in my thoughts and just remember that time is a healer. I hope you are feeling a little brighter a few months down the line

 

[ashley773]

Sorry for your loss. I also had an early miscarriage with my first child a few weeks ago. Keep yourself happy and do and be around people who make you happy. If you need to grieve, do let it out. Just know, we can try when we feel ready and less scared. Be strong