Flat morning

[surreysharon]

Had my ERPC on Wednesday and was feeling ok. Cried on the Tuesday when heard i miscarried but not cried since. Dont feel the need too to be honest, im just thinking along the lines of 'hopefully next time' etc. (just being strong)

But this morning im really flat and things like adverts are bugging me. Baby adverts for pampers, stretch mark cream etc just driving me mad and i look away. Jeremy Kyle talking about 'bad mums' etc annoying me. Its just everywhere isnt it

 

[Jessa]

You'll find that, at least for the first few days, you'll feel exactly like you do. I have been there before. It does get easier though. Try not to hold your tears in forever. I think part of being strong is acknowledging your emotions and showing people that even though you're sad, you're still persevering. I was afraid that if I didn't cry, I'd simply get mad and that wouldn't help in my healing. Thinking about you.

 

[Orange lady]

Thinking of you. It's a difficult time that unless you have experienced, you never know.
It's very much like a berievement I think. Time is a healer
xxxtake care xxx

 

[Rebaby]

I have been doing a lot of crying, although it is in my nature. But i too seem to have reached a stage where things are annoying/angering me rather than upsetting me. I keep seeing babies and children and pregnant women everywhere. We saw a couple the other day with an adorable little girl, her mum leaning over the pram smoking and the dad standing next to her drinking from a can of lager, on the street in the middle of the day. I am not normally a judgemental person and probably a few weeks back wouldn't even have paid attention but it got me so worked up. I think it's just how raw emotions are after a mc and all the hormones and thoughts/feelings whirling around.

Today is the best day i have had so far, exactly one week on from when my mc 1st started. It hasn't been super, but i have felt almost okay for the majority of the day, which compared to yesterday when i was very blue, is a real improvement.

Just take things as they come and try to be kind to yourself

 

[vickielm]

So sory about your loss hunny.

I felt the same, very feelingless to be honnest then every now and again it hit home. It has been 6 week since my D+C and it still gets to me but i am being strong (blocking it out i think) But if you need to cry, then cry! if you need to talk then talk! etc.

Dont block people out hunni, esp not OH. They might not show it but they are feeling crap and hut also.

Vik
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