soph901
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Hey Ladies,
Well FOB finally decided after 9 months of my lo been born that he would pay for him about time!! but now I'm afraid he'll want access recently found out his ditched uni in leeds and come back here
he says up to now he doesnt want to see him cos hes on anti-depressants again! I've also recently found hes been lying to me again far as I thought him and his new gf had broke up but I've found out through the vine hes still with her and has moved in with her last month he told me he was living with a "friend" now this makes me even more nervous cos hes done this before been with one person and trying to get another I know it sounds stupid but I feel like the other women even though I dont ever wanna be with him again I cant tell I know the truth cos I'd get a friend in trouble but I cant deny the truth I dont know how much she knows bout my lo if at all personally I think he got told by CSA and in case she found out hes paid but doesnt wanna see him and making up accuses but also i wonder if hes playing her and me seeing who he can get/stay with n paying to stay in my good books n see if i'll take him back 
also if he stays with her and wants access I have the issue of a possible step mum or step siblings urgh brain overload dont know what to do i dont wanna make him angry cos he could make my situation worse by denying me child support as he does it off his own back not through csa 
sorry about the long rant just needed to vent lol x
Well FOB finally decided after 9 months of my lo been born that he would pay for him about time!! but now I'm afraid he'll want access recently found out his ditched uni in leeds and come back here
he says up to now he doesnt want to see him cos hes on anti-depressants again! I've also recently found hes been lying to me again far as I thought him and his new gf had broke up but I've found out through the vine hes still with her and has moved in with her last month he told me he was living with a "friend" now this makes me even more nervous cos hes done this before been with one person and trying to get another I know it sounds stupid but I feel like the other women even though I dont ever wanna be with him again I cant tell I know the truth cos I'd get a friend in trouble but I cant deny the truth I dont know how much she knows bout my lo if at all personally I think he got told by CSA and in case she found out hes paid but doesnt wanna see him and making up accuses but also i wonder if hes playing her and me seeing who he can get/stay with n paying to stay in my good books n see if i'll take him back also if he stays with her and wants access I have the issue of a possible step mum or step siblings urgh brain overload dont know what to do i dont wanna make him angry cos he could make my situation worse by denying me child support as he does it off his own back not through csa sorry about the long rant just needed to vent lol x
