FOB has a new GF

[Tryingfora4th]

He's an alcoholic, takes drugs and used to hit me.
So why am I devestated??

 

[Laura2919]

Because its something new. It affects everyone, I know when I found out about FOB my heart sank but at the same time I expected it so I just got up and about my daily business and within a week I couldnt of cared less.

The thing that someone on here reminded me of is that everything I went through he will do again, its not selective.. I know I deserve 100% better than I got when I was with FOB and it might take some time but I am happy with that. Within 2 weeks of us splitting he was seeing another girl, he is the one who hasnt spent the time to think about what the future may hold, whereas I have. Karma will come

Just you continue on and soon enough it wont bother you.

 

[Tryingfora4th]

I'm totally crushed. He's been wanting to be with me but I've been pushing him away because of everything thats gone on, he missed his 1st baby being born because he'd been drunk and fighting and ended up in hospital with a broken cheekbone the day I had her and I've never been able to forgive him for that. Its been one let down after another ever since she was born and I know I'm crazy for feeling like his but right now in light of what I've been told all I want is him its just stupid.

 

[Laura2919]

The reason you want him is because you cant stand someone else having him but deep down you dont really want him? Surely? after the way he has treated you. He spent the night with a broken cheek bone instead of seeing his LO be born, do you really want that for your LO?

 

[Tryingfora4th]

no
I want her to be good enough for him to want to be her dad its breaking my heart that he isnt giving 2 hoots about her, he has more important things in his life.

 

[Rhio92]

Omg, I just came on to write the same post!
Hurts doesn't it hun
I haven't got any advice, FOB told me her had a girlfriend today. I already had a feeling he had... I don't know how to feel :/

 

[Laura2919]

no
I want her to be good enough for him to want to be her dad its breaking my heart that he isnt giving 2 hoots about her, he has more important things in his life.

I have the same issue, priorites never seem to be in the right order but honestly the only person who is missing out is him.. Your daughter will be so much better than have a drunk dad who likes a good fight.

You can only try so much.

 

[Tryingfora4th]

its hurting like mad because even tho we werent having a physical relationship we were still very much in each others lives. passers by would assume we were a couple so basically he has cheated.

It was only a matter of time I guess, he wanted us to sleep together etc but I couldnt because of things that have gone on. guess he got fed up of waiting.

 

[Laura2919]

Dont make excuses for him. He did wrong. He knows it but doesnt care.

Its gonna hurt, it will, but it will get better. It might take a day or two might take weeks but you will get over it.

He doesnt deserve you...