FOB is an utter *****

[MummyJade]

Okies i just need to moan!!

FOB didn't see/pay for Maizie for 5 months, so i got CSA involved, he then started seeing Maizie again i said i would cancel CSA as long as he paid the 420 child Main' he owed, i didn't mind extra each week, so we agreed £30 plus £10 for the back date he owed (told me thats all he can afford)....

He currently owes £300 still, bearing in mind hes had tattoos done, new clothes etc so he can't be that skint!

Well last night he calls at 8:30pm (knowing Maizie is in bed at 7:30pm), saying....

Him: I got Maizie a presents but it has to stay with me and dads.
Me: What is it?
Him:A puppy....
Me: A puppy!!
Him: got myself a Dogue de Bordeaux.. Gotta pay Dad £20 a week as he got it.
Me: So you got yourself a puppy, not Maizie? Also you can't afford to pay me what you owe but you can buy a dog!!

He hangs up! I was fuming! so I text the f**king toby!

Spoiler

Tell you what, you really f*ck me off.. Calling to boost how you've got yourself a dog (its not for maizie its for you we all know that). When you owe me £300 maybe your dad shoulda lent you that to pay me off, instead of a f*cking dog. but i guess no one knows you never paid for your daughter for 5 months cos you was too busy buying flowers , phone and holidays for your f*cking skank of an ex. I gotta wait for the £300 cos you so calld got no more money to pay of your debt.. I bring up our daughter have nothing for myself, while you go out spending 100s on yourself... Your a f*cking joke, your 26 would of thought you would of cared bout something other then yourself by now!

He replied,
My dads getting me it for the house for when i am on my own so grow up and leave me alone....

so i replied

Spoiler

Now your back tracking saying your dads bought you it! Bullsh*t! and you've got it for the house! Your 26! man the f*ck up and sleep at the house on your own! We all know its bull...

(Hes well known 'bad boy' no one would break into his house! he tied up a policeman and locked him a boot for gods sake! why the hell he need a security dog!) Hes such a muppet....

and safe to say he is no longer talking to me!!

(wow thats long sorry!) x

 

[Laura2919]

26 and he needs a dog for when he is on his own?? OMG. Thats hillarious!

I cant believe what I just read he is something else isnt he?

Dya know what? I wouldnt pay him any more attention. Let him get on with it. He's made himself look 6 not 26.

 

[MummyJade]

26 and he needs a dog for when he is on his own?? OMG. Thats hillarious!

I cant believe what I just read he is something else isnt he?

Dya know what? I wouldnt pay him any more attention. Let him get on with it. He's made himself look 6 not 26.

I know, i was in fits of laughter! its cos he let slip he got more money then he makes out, so tried covering up by saying bout his dad buying him it!

hes such a muppet!!

I have said my piece and will leave him to it, hes due to have Maizie tomorrow so i will see if he turns up or not...

xx

 

[dustbunny]

I love with a passion his come back of: "My dads getting me it for the house for when i am on my own so grow up and leave me alone...."

Id do what he asks, leave him alone... his loss and seeing as at first he has inadvertently said he would rather spend his children's money on a dog... well... dick!

With some guys I am just gobsmacked!!

 

[MummyJade]

I love with a passion his come back of: "My dads getting me it for the house for when i am on my own so grow up and leave me alone...."

Id do what he asks, leave him alone... his loss and seeing as at first he has inadvertently said he would rather spend his children's money on a dog... well... dick!

With some guys I am just gobsmacked!!

Yeah he is a utter twat, Told me yesterday he was no longer having Maizie! all because i told him a few home truths, so i have left him too it!!

I noticed your Nr Bath!
I am from Bath but live outside it now...
x

 

[xSophieBx]

I agree with the title of this thread... What a total utter TWAT!! You should never have cancelled CSA... I would re open your case immediately... it will get back dated & they can take up to 40% of his wages to repay what he owes. Ok I know their crap but u will get it eventually which your quite obviously not gonna get from him!

I can't believe the cheek of him.. I would be totally fuming!! He doesn't deserve to take credit of being maize's dad when your the one that has done everything for her. Least we know who shes going to appreciate the most when shes older!

 

[MummyJade]

I agree with the title of this thread... What a total utter TWAT!! You should never have cancelled CSA... I would re open your case immediately... it will get back dated & they can take up to 40% of his wages to repay what he owes. Ok I know their crap but u will get it eventually which your quite obviously not gonna get from him!

I can't believe the cheek of him.. I would be totally fuming!! He doesn't deserve to take credit of being maize's dad when your the one that has done everything for her. Least we know who shes going to appreciate the most when shes older!

Thanks love,

At the moment he is paying back the money, he said i will get it before xmas (the full 300), and he owes not to push me cos i will get CSA back onto him... (i know how he works when money is involved)...


He has admitted before that if it wasn't for me Maizie would have nothing, and that his family don't bother with her, thats why she now takes my name as i don't want her having the same name as a family who don't give a shit! and that he hasn't been the dad he should, but yet he doesn't do anything to change it... He lives a 10 min walk from my house, and still doesn't make an effort to have Maizie more!

x

 

[dustbunny]

I love with a passion his come back of: "My dads getting me it for the house for when i am on my own so grow up and leave me alone...."

Id do what he asks, leave him alone... his loss and seeing as at first he has inadvertently said he would rather spend his children's money on a dog... well... dick!

With some guys I am just gobsmacked!!

Yeah he is a utter twat, Told me yesterday he was no longer having Maizie! all because i told him a few home truths, so i have left him too it!!

I noticed your Nr Bath!
I am from Bath but live outside it now...
x

I live more street way but no one ever seems to know where that is when I explain, just find it easier to say a bigger city! Hehe!! Although I am heading to Bath tomorrow.

 

[MummyJade]

I love with a passion his come back of: "My dads getting me it for the house for when i am on my own so grow up and leave me alone...."

Id do what he asks, leave him alone... his loss and seeing as at first he has inadvertently said he would rather spend his children's money on a dog... well... dick!

With some guys I am just gobsmacked!!

Yeah he is a utter twat, Told me yesterday he was no longer having Maizie! all because i told him a few home truths, so i have left him too it!!

I noticed your Nr Bath!
I am from Bath but live outside it now...
x

I live more street way but no one ever seems to know where that is when I explain, just find it easier to say a bigger city! Hehe!! Although I am heading to Bath tomorrow.

Yeah i totally know what you mean, i say Bath cos its easier then explaining...
lol... x

 

[judge12]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

 

[MummyJade]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

 

[judge12]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

So he cannot buy anything for himself? he phoned you up and told you, he was excited about his daughter reactiob to the puppy. Was it immature, yes but like I said I think you need to talk too him about this then go off all the time when he buys himself something. He needs to live his life too

 

[dustbunny]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

So he cannot buy anything for himself? he phoned you up and told you, he was excited about his daughter reactiob to the puppy. Was it immature, yes but like I said I think you need to talk too him about this then go off all the time when he buys himself something. He needs to live his life too

I'm sorry but I don't agree... he shouldn't be going out splashing the cash on himself when he already owes money to his child. If when a mother gives birth the baby comes first it should be the same for the dad, regardless if he is in the picture or not. This annoys me that fathers want equal rights but don't want to pay towards their child.... he shouldn't have bought a dog [it goes beyond the dog... the dog food etc] if at present he can't afford to look after his child. So no... imo and I understand it might differ from the OP but he shouldn't be spending on himself aside from essentials.

 

[xSophieBx]

I agree with dustbunny.

Dogs don't come cheap and paying for his daughter should of been his priority first.

 

[Laura2919]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

So he cannot buy anything for himself? he phoned you up and told you, he was excited about his daughter reactiob to the puppy. Was it immature, yes but like I said I think you need to talk too him about this then go off all the time when he buys himself something. He needs to live his life too

Second of your posts I dont agree with! If he owes money for his child then he should be paying that first.. Why on earth would anyone be happy about the fact he has just got a dog but cant cough up the money he owes.. Honestly he is lucky he dont have me as an ex, I'd have torn strips off of him let alone had a go at him... Pay for what you helped create before you go splashing out money on luxuries of life!

 

[MummyJade]

Laura i will give you his number!!

he is currently locked up anyway! another story....

I am not saying he can't buy himself something, but something so expensive when he didn't buy for his daughter i think is taking the pee abit...

x

 

[xSophieBx]

^^ Not to mention the fact he can't even be responsible for his daughter... what hope is there for the poor puppy! Whos looking after it whilst his in prison!

 

[xSophieBx]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

So he cannot buy anything for himself? he phoned you up and told you, he was excited about his daughter reactiob to the puppy. Was it immature, yes but like I said I think you need to talk too him about this then go off all the time when he buys himself something. He needs to live his life too

Second of your posts I dont agree with! If he owes money for his child then he should be paying that first.. Why on earth would anyone be happy about the fact he has just got a dog but cant cough up the money he owes.. Honestly he is lucky he dont have me as an ex, I'd have torn strips off of him let alone had a go at him... Pay for what you helped create before you go splashing out money on luxuries of life!

The bit highlighted - Someone that obviously hasn't had to deal with and know how hard & frustrating it is...

 

[MummyJade]

He texted you about the puppy, he sounded excited about it and about his daughter meeting the puppy. Maybe his dad did buy the dog? who knows but maybe you should sit down and talk too him? he sounds immature but it's not like he was keeping the fact he got a dog from you so I see no mean act from him here.

I know his dad, he doesn't buy anyone anything..

Its the fact he owes money for his daughter and says he has none but can go buy a dog thats bothered me..

x

So he cannot buy anything for himself? he phoned you up and told you, he was excited about his daughter reactiob to the puppy. Was it immature, yes but like I said I think you need to talk too him about this then go off all the time when he buys himself something. He needs to live his life too

Second of your posts I dont agree with! If he owes money for his child then he should be paying that first.. Why on earth would anyone be happy about the fact he has just got a dog but cant cough up the money he owes.. Honestly he is lucky he dont have me as an ex, I'd have torn strips off of him let alone had a go at him... Pay for what you helped create before you go splashing out money on luxuries of life!

The bit highlighted - Someone that obviously hasn't had to deal with and know how hard & frustrating it is...

I agree sophie...

I am guessing his dad is as he lives with him...
xx

 

[Laura--x]

Oh god what an absolute twat! Men really never do grow up and take responsibilties do they? Do not let him get away with not paying your money! xx