FOB is just unreal

[Shezza84uk]

My ex and FOB literally turned up at my door with flowers and chocolates today 7 MONTHS LATER!!!???? WTF!!! did I mention he tried to hug me

This man walked out on DD and I 2 weeks before our wedding.. I then found out I was pregnant which I told him straight away and he's ignored me everyday since except mothers day he sent me a card.. He's not seen DD or attempted to get in touch since January!! 7 freaking months!! I mean fair enough he's always paid maintenance without fail but to just turn up asking to be involved just blows me away HOW DOES SOMEONE DO THAT??? ... He now wants to be involved in DD's education and my hospital appointments, He asked when was my next appointment I told him I have a scan on Friday which he beamed with excitement and he now wants to attend that too??? I am convinced he has no conscience I just cant believe the cheek of him!!

 

[Dezireey]

Was he with someone else by any chance and she has now dumped him? I am in contact with my FOB but he never mentions nor wants to talk about his son. If he suddenly decided out of the blue to get to know him now, I would be highly cautious and suspicious and wonder what his motives are. I highly doubt he has suddenly developed a conscience.

If there is one thing all our FOB's have in common (and we should all be wary of) is when the Sh**&t hits the fan, they disappear. flaky people don't usually change. be careful and do what is best for the little one, whatever that is.

hugs xx

 

[Shezza84uk]

I have no idea what his relationship status was or is. I insisted that he stayed outside as I don't feel comfortable around him and told him no hugs at all. I told him he can see DD but not in my home because my house is my comfort zone he seemed offended but I don't care, I will never take him back the only thing we agreed on is he needs to be responsible for the baby and keep supporting DD and I told him that is all I want from him because I have had to heal and I am in fact more contented being on my own.

 

[Dezireey]

Good for you. I wish my FOB would turn up on my doorstep, apologise for everything want to know his son and then ask for me back....upon which, I would tell him where to stuff it, as damage is done and he can see his son but no way in hell will he ever get me back. Wish I had the opportunity to do that!! karma and all that, what goes around comes around.

 

[teal]

Well done you on being stong I hope he does help support his children xx