FOB is seeing someone.. *update*

[Novbaby08]

Yeah Ive had girls approach me cussing me out because of shit like that and Im like did he tell you he dumped me when I was 5 weeks pregnant, or how he denied she was his, or how about the fact he's gone a year without even trying to contact me? usually they hear some pathetic sob story about how Im this terrible mom and i wont let him see his beloved baby girl. and how he loves and misses her so much. blah blah blah bullshit

 

[Laura2919]

Its amazing how many lies he has told. I knew deep down it wasnt right but I just carried on. It really angers me and I am not sure how to let this anger go, I hate liars, 6 years we were together and I never even spoke to another bloke like that.

It doesnt matter because when Chloe and Jaycee meet this new lady she will have to look at MY children and remember she was part of the reason their daddy left. But it was mutual and I knew there was a reason I felt like it was over.

Doesnt mean it doesnt hurt that he lied though.

 

[emlubu]

It will all come crashing down on him!! My ex commuted adultry and was with the women up untill a few weeks ago.... She played him like a book!! Men they never learn... I did go thro 6 months of hell when they was together tho as it's your fella or husband that has just cheated on u and you family but it will come n bite him
In the bum!!! Believe me now I am the happy one!

I feel ok about the fact he is seeing someone but he blatantly lied to me and when questioned he was so rude (I think he was with her)

Apparently they were talking before we split but it was innocent... Ha, yeah of course it was.

I feel like everything I knew about him was a lie... How annoying...

One day I so hope the sky comes crashing down on him!!

 

[Laura2919]

Thanks hun.

I havent spoken to him since Tuesday, we had a massive argument (see my other thread)
He text this morning but I ignored him and I intend to!

 

[Laura2919]

Just a small update here lol.

So on Friday FOB mum had to pick the twins up from my mums. Mum said she seemed a bit awkward and as she was leaving with the twins she said to mum 'oh all this carrying on ay' my mum kindly said 'well sorry but its your son who is causing it, if he had just been honest in the beginning she wouldnt be hurt because if nothing was going on before then he wouldnt of had to lie' She went on about how she spoke to him and asked if he was seeing this girl and he told his mum that he wasnt seeing her he just met up with her once or twice a week for sex OMG. Honestly...

I told my mum I dont even know why she would even come and say anything at all to my mum cos she knows full well my mum would say something about it to me.
To be honest I couldnt care less if he was seeing her, she has to put up with him now not me. He thinks I am sitting at home crying after him when in fact I am doing exactly what I want to be doing, I am talking to someone, I have moved on from him. He doesnt bother me anymore. I am glad she said what she did because my mum is so open she will tell you how it is.
I dont really hear from his side of the family unless they want something from me and I dont expect to hear anything.
I am happy with him thinking I am crying into my pillow every night because then when the time comes it will hit him even harder...

 

[xSophieBx]

Wot a total dickhead! Glad your positive and getting your life back on track.. your doing very well x

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

x

 

[jessrabbit]

Stay positive, your soooo much better off without x

 

[Laura2919]

Oh dont I know it..

 

[teal]

xx

 

[Laura2919]

He is being really nicey nicey.. Means something else is to come.. Wonder what this time... Shes pregnant probably .. Or he has found out about my little adventure on Saturday night... Either way it will more than likely be a drama..