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Ugh where to begin? 
Contact never seems to have been right. When FOB went away for 2 weeks, the new arrangement was for him to come to my house instead of my parents so he didn't feel 'intimidated' by my dad. The first week he came, he wanted to take Josh out but insisted I went along. I eventually managed to leave him and went to my parents which is near to the park we went to. I'd asked him to pick J up when he crossed the road opposite my parents, which he ignored and I had a go at him.
The second time we stopped in, and we'd had a bit of a falling out about something and I decided to go upstairs to leave him alone(which might I add, FOB asked for). By the end of the contact he told me he wanted it back at my parents cause of the disagreements. He text my dad who agreed. The next week he was just short of the fare here. The week after, he came with his parents. The one after, I text him to kinda remind him contact was at my parents which he said he didn't agree to. So I said fine, my house then but my dad'll be there, again he disagreed. He text me the day before he was due and asked if he was to come or not. I ignored said text cause it was a stupid question IMO.
He now hasn't been since he came with his parents which was 11th Aug. I got a letter to my parents on Thurs saying I'm dictating to him about when and where contact will be when all I'm doing is going along with what he wants and saying we're(my side) getting the dads to organize contact! They've only chatted about a different subject to do with FOB. It also said he wants mediation to sort this out, when I don't because I'm not the one causing any problems with contact. I've handed it all on a plate for him, bent over backwards to accomodate what he wants, and he comes out with this! Come Monday I shall be phoning my solicitor to try and get this done once and for all
Sorry for long post but I wanted to get it off my chest. If you're still reading this and I haven't bored you, thanks lol
Contact never seems to have been right. When FOB went away for 2 weeks, the new arrangement was for him to come to my house instead of my parents so he didn't feel 'intimidated' by my dad. The first week he came, he wanted to take Josh out but insisted I went along. I eventually managed to leave him and went to my parents which is near to the park we went to. I'd asked him to pick J up when he crossed the road opposite my parents, which he ignored and I had a go at him.
The second time we stopped in, and we'd had a bit of a falling out about something and I decided to go upstairs to leave him alone(which might I add, FOB asked for). By the end of the contact he told me he wanted it back at my parents cause of the disagreements. He text my dad who agreed. The next week he was just short of the fare here. The week after, he came with his parents. The one after, I text him to kinda remind him contact was at my parents which he said he didn't agree to. So I said fine, my house then but my dad'll be there, again he disagreed. He text me the day before he was due and asked if he was to come or not. I ignored said text cause it was a stupid question IMO.
He now hasn't been since he came with his parents which was 11th Aug. I got a letter to my parents on Thurs saying I'm dictating to him about when and where contact will be when all I'm doing is going along with what he wants and saying we're(my side) getting the dads to organize contact! They've only chatted about a different subject to do with FOB. It also said he wants mediation to sort this out, when I don't because I'm not the one causing any problems with contact. I've handed it all on a plate for him, bent over backwards to accomodate what he wants, and he comes out with this! Come Monday I shall be phoning my solicitor to try and get this done once and for all
Sorry for long post but I wanted to get it off my chest. If you're still reading this and I haven't bored you, thanks lol
sorry hes being such a pain x
