Dezireey
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FOB update
Well he knows. his behaviour is odd to say the least. Sent him pics of our son and told him he was born, no response. then get a cheery e- mail saying he reveived messages from me but couldnt open the pics. I then replied to e-mail saying his boy had been born etc. I get a quick response asking how I am feeling and if I am on the mend I ask if we can talk about registering babys birth he says 'yeah no problem'
I seriously think this guy believes that if he doesnt mention his sons name or any other 'birth related' topics it didnt happen?? He talks to me sometimes as if I am a friend of his having a baby and asking 'how you doing?' and 'what you been up to?' i am not sure what planet he is on. Oh yeah he also posted on his facebook that he thinks he made some girls day today by telling her she was stunning and to ditch her boyfriend and call him. Scumbag...... ex has just given birth to his kid, traumatic birth, suffered physically and emotionally and he posts that. Will have our talk tomorrow and he will be put under no illusions that there will never be an 'us' ever again. How can you take a man back after all that?
Well he is finally here!!! After a slow, complicated labour with lots of drama ( posted more detail in third tri forum re: hospitals treating patients like they are on a production line) my boy has arrived!
He weighed 8lb 10oz and I cant believe that perfect little babba was inside me!
So much love comes over you, have not bothered to contact FOB yet but when I do, if I get no response I really dont care one jot. 1) because I would never, ever go back to a man who would not be there for me during what I just went through and 2) Me and my boy will be just fine together with my great family supporting me and all the love I have for him
He is sure keeping me busy already, which definitely takes your mind off brooding about FOB. Havent got time for that anymore!
Well he knows. his behaviour is odd to say the least. Sent him pics of our son and told him he was born, no response. then get a cheery e- mail saying he reveived messages from me but couldnt open the pics. I then replied to e-mail saying his boy had been born etc. I get a quick response asking how I am feeling and if I am on the mend I ask if we can talk about registering babys birth he says 'yeah no problem'
I seriously think this guy believes that if he doesnt mention his sons name or any other 'birth related' topics it didnt happen?? He talks to me sometimes as if I am a friend of his having a baby and asking 'how you doing?' and 'what you been up to?' i am not sure what planet he is on. Oh yeah he also posted on his facebook that he thinks he made some girls day today by telling her she was stunning and to ditch her boyfriend and call him. Scumbag...... ex has just given birth to his kid, traumatic birth, suffered physically and emotionally and he posts that. Will have our talk tomorrow and he will be put under no illusions that there will never be an 'us' ever again. How can you take a man back after all that?
Well he is finally here!!! After a slow, complicated labour with lots of drama ( posted more detail in third tri forum re: hospitals treating patients like they are on a production line) my boy has arrived!
He weighed 8lb 10oz and I cant believe that perfect little babba was inside me!
So much love comes over you, have not bothered to contact FOB yet but when I do, if I get no response I really dont care one jot. 1) because I would never, ever go back to a man who would not be there for me during what I just went through and 2) Me and my boy will be just fine together with my great family supporting me and all the love I have for him
He is sure keeping me busy already, which definitely takes your mind off brooding about FOB. Havent got time for that anymore!
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