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[rjb]

man,
i don't even know what's right.
i mean.
ugh!
i don't like him.
i don't trust him to be in a relationship with
and i don't trust him with my LO
but he messages me all the time
saying he loves me
and he just wants a chance.
but,
he doesn't deserve a chance!
urghhh

 

[samface182]

stay strong and don't give him another chance then xx

 

[LoveAlways,]

and you're sure it's not just hormones?

Either way, don't allow him to be in your life unless you're absolutely sure he belongs there. It's your life, YOU choose who's in it. x

 

[ablacketer]

why did you split? if you dont mind me asking

 

[AyaChan]

Be strong hun and just tell him to stay away from you, if he wants to see LO you can make him have supervised access (I think, better check with Amy, she knows more than I do).

Some men just arent worth the time us girls give them

x

 

[Fadesofblack]

and you're sure it's not just hormones?

Either way, don't allow him to be in your life unless you're absolutely sure he belongs there. It's your life, YOU choose who's in it. x

It's their child's life and no one has any right to play god.

Just because you're angry with someone gives you no right to refuse to let him see his child. It's just as much his as it is hers. It takes 2 to tango.

 

[rjb]

and you're sure it's not just hormones?

Either way, don't allow him to be in your life unless you're absolutely sure he belongs there. It's your life, YOU choose who's in it. x

It's their child's life and no one has any right to play god.

Just because you're angry with someone gives you no right to refuse to let him see his child. It's just as much his as it is hers. It takes 2 to tango.

due to the fact you're a boy, i can see why you would think that
but just because he's capable of making a baby
doesn't make his responsible enough to be a father.
he's 16, a high school drop out, and has serious anger issues.
not to mention a legal record and previously violent background.
that's why we split to whoever up there asked.
i appreciate you asking before making a judgement.

 

[bbyno1]

only you can decide this one for yourself but i wouldnt go back to someone like that if i was you..you deserve better x

 

[rjb]

also, there's a difference between "playing god" and protecting my child.

 

[bbyno1]

i agree..with hes anger issues and violent background like you said i would stay well away..
if you could get along for babys sake thats a different thing altogether but to be in a relationship with him would be a no no for me x

 

[amylou1992]

do what suits you, if he's that bothered about seeing his child then he'd make an effort to sort himself out, and get help for his anger issues.

 

[rainbows_x]

I can't really say anything, not knowing either of you personally I wouldn't like to judge him.

But if you think what you are doing is right then stick to your guns & I hope that if what you say about him is true that he can change for you LO.
x

 

[Fadesofblack]

and you're sure it's not just hormones?

Either way, don't allow him to be in your life unless you're absolutely sure he belongs there. It's your life, YOU choose who's in it. x

It's their child's life and no one has any right to play god.

Just because you're angry with someone gives you no right to refuse to let him see his child. It's just as much his as it is hers. It takes 2 to tango.

due to the fact you're a boy, i can see why you would think that
but just because he's capable of making a baby
doesn't make his responsible enough to be a father.
he's 16, a high school drop out, and has serious anger issues.
not to mention a legal record and previously violent background.
that's why we split to whoever up there asked.
i appreciate you asking before making a judgement.

You sorta left out the violent part, when making a topic you should include all info rather than letting me make myself into a asshat. The way you worded it, just made it sound like you just didn't like him, I apologize if I sounded too forward.

 

[rjb]

and you're sure it's not just hormones?

Either way, don't allow him to be in your life unless you're absolutely sure he belongs there. It's your life, YOU choose who's in it. x

It's their child's life and no one has any right to play god.

Just because you're angry with someone gives you no right to refuse to let him see his child. It's just as much his as it is hers. It takes 2 to tango.

due to the fact you're a boy, i can see why you would think that
but just because he's capable of making a baby
doesn't make his responsible enough to be a father.
he's 16, a high school drop out, and has serious anger issues.
not to mention a legal record and previously violent background.
that's why we split to whoever up there asked.
i appreciate you asking before making a judgement.

You sorta left out the violent part, when making a topic you should include all info rather than letting me make myself into a asshat. The way you worded it, just made it sound like you just didn't like him, I apologize if I sounded too forward.

that's alright, i wasn't intentionally sound rude here either,
i'm just a little bit protective.
i had posted about all that in previous posts from a while ago.
this was more of a frustation thing.