Fuming... apparently its all my fault!

[lou_w34]

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[starbucks101]

I would send him a text along the lines of "when you've the brain to be a dad and not just the bollocks to make one, why dont you get in touch, untill then just do Scarlett a favour and f*ck off"

But that because im in a grumpy mood at the moment lol

What a jackass!! grrr

 

[littlekitten8]

Urgh what an arse! You and Scarlett are much better off without him! Hope he sorts himself out hun x

 

[teal]

Can't believe he's saying it's your fault.

You shouldn't be having to ask him for anything. He should be offering or checking if you have everything You're right that it shouldn't matter whether you want to see him. He'd be coming down to see his daughter.

xx

 

[expecting09]

What a complete and utter prick! You and Scarlett don't need him in your lives, I'm sure you'd be much better off telling him where to go. And making out that it's your fault!?!? How low can you get, or does he not have a single brain cell

 

[sweetlullaby]

I would send him a text along the lines of "when you've the brain to be a dad and not just the bollocks to make one, why dont you get in touch, untill then just do Scarlett a favour and f*ck off"

But that because im in a grumpy mood at the moment lol

What a jackass!! grrr

took the words right out of my mouth!

 

[lou_w34]

I would send him a text along the lines of "when you've the brain to be a dad and not just the bollocks to make one, why dont you get in touch, untill then just do Scarlett a favour and f*ck off"

But that because im in a grumpy mood at the moment lol

What a jackass!! grrr

Ha! thats brilliant! I may be stealing that if he pisses me off again!

Thanks girlies

I stopped texting after that as i was starting to see red lol, so he text me again asking if he could come down wednesday... im to annoyed to reply at the moment lol

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Text him when you feel a bit calmer tell him you can come down on wednesday and you can provide for your daughter, if you give me one more shitty excuse or dont show up then dont bother again because i will just ignore you. Me and my daughter have better things to do than sit around waiting on you all day.

Or something along those lines. lol

 

[suzanne108]

All I can say is well done for giving him so many chances he might try to blame you to make himself feel better but take peace from the fact that you tried your hardest xxx

 

[lou_w34]

I think im too soft, i wish id told him to sod off ages ago.

I text him this morning saying that i have plans tomorrow but im free between 12-2 so he can come down then. Im not rearranging my plans for him, i dont even no if he is gunna bother....

If doesnt show... thats it.

xxx

 

[expecting09]

Yeah, theres only so many chances you can give him, theres got to be a day when you just turn round and say don't bother anymore xx

 

[lou_w34]

He text back.... saying he wants to spend more than two hours with her, so how about 17th feb??

Thats just over two weeks away!!! For someone who keeps harping on about seeing her, he's certainly not taking any of his oppertunities too. I mean two hours is better than nothing, and if he wanted to see her that badly he would come!

I also told him to spell her name correctly and he had to ask me how!! Ive written it out in texts many times and he took no notice... id be mortified if i spelt my daughters name wrong... especially as he has seen it written down so many times!


And sorry for going on all the time, just makes it easier to write it down lol

xxx

 

[teal]

You're not going on all the time

I agree with you that he doesn't seem to be making that much of an effort. 17th February is quite a while away. He could have still seen her for the 2 hours when you offered and then made arrangements if he wanted to see her longer (if you're comfortable with that).

You'd think he'd remember how to spell his daughters name!

xx

 

[lou_w34]

Useless... the lot of them!

xx

 

[teal]

I agree!

ps: love your new avator picture! Scarlett is gorgeous! xx

 

[lou_w34]

Thankyous x