Fuming! >:|

[rebeccaalice]

God who needs enemies when you have a sister like mine!! I haven't spoken to my ex in over a month as he has caused too much stress and trouble and being pregnant I want my baby here safe and as stress free as poss! Well he has been texting me which I have been ignoring have told him I will let him know when baby is here so no need for contact till then .. Well this morning I get a text ignore it as usual text my sister and mention it she says nothing then get a phone call from our mum about a hair app and she says he has text my sister who has gone and bloody text him back! She knows full well I don't want him knowing about things about me fair enough about baby and I would tell him but until its here there is nothing to say!

Sorry to just rant! But I'm sick of it! All she had to say is ohh well if I text him and told him what was going on she wouldn't have too! Sorry but this pathetic excuse cheated on me while we were planning our wedding and this baby I'm pregnant with and has treated me like crap since physically and mentally so no I do not want contact she should respect that!

I'm 7 days over due an she was ment to be my birthing partner ffs! Not now!!

 

[rebeccaalice]

Hmm think i'll stick to other sections not much support here!

 

[whatwillbe]

I'd be mad too, I'd have a word with your Sis and tell her not to let him know anything in future, I can understand why you don't want any contact with him, I think your being reasonable enough by saying you'll let him know when baby arrives x

 

[whatwillbe]

P.s I just noticed your 7 days overdue , that must be getting you down too ! Hope baby makes a speedy arrival for you

 

[rebeccaalice]

Thanks makes me angry more that she hasn't apologised and is making excuses why she has done it .. Think this is the straw that broke the camels back with also now I'm facing a birth with no one there as I can't even look/speak to her let alone be stuck in a room with her while being in labour

 

[Dezireey]

You are going to need someone with you hun, are you sure you can't put up with her just to help out with labour? But then again having said that, if she is stressing you, will she stress you out when you give birth? Best to have things as calm as possible. I think you are strong and it's admirable that you are not having anything to do with FOB. Lots of ladies would put up with a man who had done that because they don't want to be alone giving birth, so kudos to you for being brave. Try not to let your sister upset you right now, easier said than done but stress is not good for you or little one.