I am missing my little Annabel so so much .....I feel like I have this massive hole right through the middle of me .It will four week at the end of this week since i delivered her at 15 week .I Keep looking at our photographs of her thinking how small but perfect she was ...
On a night I just feel like all I want to do is lay with her blanket .....when We went in to have my labour induced we took two blankets in which the midwife advised ....one we left her wrapped in and the other one we kept .....it reminds me so much of those hours we had with her ....happy feelings but over powered by this horrendous grief ....feeling like I had been stabbed .
The last two days I have thought about the whole process more than I have in the last couple of weeks .....I find that I lay or sit thinking about them telling us she had died ......then sitting in the what i call bad news room .......laying in Simons arms crying for what felt like hours ... going back taking the medication ...the hours after then all through the labour ...like reliving it .He keeps saying dont ....dont you dont need to and holding me .....to hug me ..to try to stop the thoughts .Is this normal??
One minuite I feel ok ish the next minuite I am in tears .....one of the hardest things at the minuite I feel I struggle to cope with iis something that I know is silly really but it hurts so much .....its the " you lost the baby" " when you lost her " " sorry you lost your baby " .............................I ....lost her ..................................
On a night I just feel like all I want to do is lay with her blanket .....when We went in to have my labour induced we took two blankets in which the midwife advised ....one we left her wrapped in and the other one we kept .....it reminds me so much of those hours we had with her ....happy feelings but over powered by this horrendous grief ....feeling like I had been stabbed .
The last two days I have thought about the whole process more than I have in the last couple of weeks .....I find that I lay or sit thinking about them telling us she had died ......then sitting in the what i call bad news room .......laying in Simons arms crying for what felt like hours ... going back taking the medication ...the hours after then all through the labour ...like reliving it .He keeps saying dont ....dont you dont need to and holding me .....to hug me ..to try to stop the thoughts .Is this normal??
One minuite I feel ok ish the next minuite I am in tears .....one of the hardest things at the minuite I feel I struggle to cope with iis something that I know is silly really but it hurts so much .....its the " you lost the baby" " when you lost her " " sorry you lost your baby " .............................I ....lost her ..................................