Getting Angry!!

[mz_jackie86]

OK so let me just tell u a bit bout my situation.....

I broke up wit my bf in june and and fell pregnant in july so originally thought it was his, but i slept with my ex before him in july also and dates ended up adding to baby being his!

So he said he wanted a test to prove baby was his which was fair enough...
We have had good times and bad times during pregnancy but hey who wouldnt in that situation..
So newho he joined the army on the 5th of april and kept in contact while he was there and then when i had Arianna he rang every day to see how she was, his sisters came to see her and his mum has been in contact but she lives far away so hasnt seen her yet! But then last week some stupid friend of mine wrote on my facebook "Glad to see you had my baby" so i deleted it as because of our situation my ex wouldnt take kindly to it...so then last thursday my stupid friend wrote it again on my facebook and ex saw it before i could delete, so my ex sent me a text with friends name in and that was it, nothing else and havent heard from him since!
Now i get why he would be pissed cos of our situation in the beginning but thats over a week now he hasnt even called to see if his daughter is ok....ive called loads and text but nothing and i am gettin so angry cos i dnt wanna be like a stalker and calling and textin but every time i say i wont i do but i just want him to acknowledge his baby girl!!!!

Sorry moan over!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[maddiwatts19]

i'm sorry your in this situation hun.. hope he comes round soon

 

[laura3103]

I HOPE YOU HAVE HAD A GO AT THIS SO CALLED FRIEND FOR MAKING THINGS THIS WAY!!!

hope he comes round soon may just need time to cool down .x.x.

 

[kimfrye661]

I would've ripped this "friend" a new a**hole!!!

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah i agree, hope you have deleted the friend and told them to f off!!!

 

[mz_jackie86]

well finally spoke to him and he is still pissed more so cos when we were together this friend caused problems and he thought i was cheatin on him with ma mate but i wasnt...wudnt go near him with a barge pole......and the phone call was ended abruptly but hey ho least he asked how his daughter is!!!!

thanks girls!!! xx

 

[shaunanicole]

WTF!!!!???? I hope you told your friend what was up!

 

[mz_jackie86]

My brother had a go at this mate of mine, im gunna delete this friend....i thought ifi deleted him it wud look suspicious..what u reckon?

 

[shaunanicole]

Yeah deleting him might look a little suspicious because guys think in a different way then girls do. Maybe if you explain to FOB that you're going to delete the guy then maybe he'll feel you weren't being secretive and won't think anything out of it. When do you do the blood test to prove it's his? Cus after that there will be no doubts.

 

[Naya69]

i would of deleted this so called friend straight away they obviously dont think that much of ya if they are gonna try makin ya life hell. the best thing to do is get a dna done i know you might know the baby is his but it will always caurse arguments and will always be in your heads.

iam goin through the same situation i went off the dates the midwife gave me but when i did a dna on my oh it came bk negative iam now waiting for my second lot of results to come bk from the csa next week its the most horrible and stressfull thing ive ever had to go through but for the past 18 months its been in the bk of my mind and has always caursed problems for me and my babys dad, just cant wait till its over.

i hope he comes round and keep ya chin up things will cum gud in the end.

ps your baby is soooo cute shes adorable xxx