Getting impossible to live with my mum.

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Our communication is minimal. And I feel like sometimes she just fancies an argument and then she asks me all about my plans. I'm only 10 weeks, I haven't really thought of a major plan yet.

I had my dating scan yesterday and she wouldn't even look at the pictures. My dad was in the same room and told her he can't believe she's so disinterested in her own grandchild. They argue a lot over me and the baby, and I don't want to put a strain on their marriage.

I spend most nights at my OH's and I just want to stay here all the time but I feel bad for his Grandma cause I obviously eat their food. Plus we've not told any of his family yet, and if I more or less move in and they react badly she might kick me out and then I have to go back home to my mum.
 
Sorry to hear things are so bad..are you or OH working? I asked that because maybe you guys can get an apartment together
 
I'm sorry I know how you feel about your parents! :(
Mine seriously just feel like bitching sometimes about the house work or groceries and they are so immature about it! Me and OH buy so much more food than they do and we clean more than they do and it would seriously NEVER be good enough for them I'm so sick of hearing it!
Whenever my dad asks me what my 'plans' are I just tell him its my business and I'll figure it out. It pisses him off and he just bitches some more about how I need to get a job and how tough it is to make it in this world and I literally just brush it off like, 'yeah I know dad I have plans don't worry!'
Which I do, but honestly I don't need him picking apart what I plan on doing and giving his two sense of the situation.

I would talk to his grandma and tell her your pregnant! And tell her the situation with your mother, she might want to support you and want you to move in!
I totally feel your pain I had to live with my OH's grandmother the first 7 months of my pregnancy.. I hope it gets better soon! :hugs:
 
I'm doing a dental nursing apprenticeship and make £103 a week. OH is at college three days a week, and has just got a job in a pub. But he's just got contracted 6 hours a week, but usually gets 10-20. So he gets like 55-110 a week. We just couldn't afford to move out.

We were going to tell her yesterday but he was really stressed and didnt want to do it then. He's been busy all day and at 8 she went to work. I think we're telling her tomorrow.
 
Just remember hun there is always a storm before the sunshine. Me and my mom started getting into it badly when I first found out, but as time went on and I got my own place things got better, You probably just need some space from her for a little while
 
I hope they get better soon! :hugs: Let us know how telling her goes!
 
I'm doing a dental nursing apprenticeship and make £103 a week. OH is at college three days a week, and has just got a job in a pub. But he's just got contracted 6 hours a week, but usually gets 10-20. So he gets like 55-110 a week. We just couldn't afford to move out.

We were going to tell her yesterday but he was really stressed and didnt want to do it then. He's been busy all day and at 8 she went to work. I think we're telling her tomorrow.

Where abouts are you? Just curious as I'm doing a dental nursing apprenticeship at the moment and am making around £1000 a month (with the NHS) ??
 
Where abouts are you? Just curious as I'm doing a dental nursing apprenticeship at the moment and am making around £1000 a month (with the NHS) ??

I'm in the North East. I'm doing it through a college at a private practice. I'm only in placement 3 days a week.
 

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