Gimme a Break..

[BabySeal]

FOB is such a different person since I kicked him out.. even ruder than before and I never saw that as possible.

I don't get his help with LO's expenses. So the daycare, diapers, food, everything falls on me. I mean it is what it is, and I do a DAMN good job, but it just isnt FAIR!

He has been free to come see LO and has seen him for less than 4 hours since he moved. Now he is telling people that I don't let him see the baby. I have not refused him visiting, not once. And he gloats to people how he may be broke with no money, but he makes sure he has a roof over his kids' heads and food in their mouth... pshhhh yeah right.

My LO doesn't say "dada", he doesnt even know him as his father, and he lived with us up until a month ago!! Funny thing he says my best friends name, but not dada

today when I asked for money his reactions included :

"youre a bitch"
"i dont have any money" (he makes double I do, gimme a break)
"go kill yourself"

stupid stupid boy... get over yourself

 

[jessrabbit]

What is wrong with them! arrrrrgggggghhhhhhh.

All we can do is keep doing our best, they are the ones missing out. Its so hard to keep rising above it all of the time though.

big hugs x

 

[xSophieBx]

UGH MEN!!! I don't get any maintenance for my daughter either.. yet he wants to see her.. just doesn't want to provide for her. We have Child support agency over here which help get maintenance, do u have something like that in the USA?

 

[Vinushka]

My husband has turned into a complete psychopath since he left, he's lying, taking money from the kids and leading people on. Right now he's so controlling that I cannot get anything at all out of him, even an answer. He had a real go at me earlier assuming I was ignoring him because I was so busy I couldn't jump the instant he texted me when he ignores me completely 90% of the time and gets drunk and breaks down and tells me different stories every day.

I think some men just go a bit wrong in the head when they have babies involved... Now I just hope he doesn't do anything stupid tomorrow and mess up my little man's birthday :3

 

[Laura2919]

I have to admit I have said drop dead a few times when FOB pisses me off. but sometimes he gets rude and I think WOAH hold up, who the hell you talking to like that

 

[BabySeal]

yeah I can go get child support... just have to wait until i have a day off to file the papers.

its all such a big mess

 

[Laura2919]

Hope you sort it out soon

 

[xSophieBx]

Hopefully u can get the papers filed asap & that will make a start on sorting yourself out x

 

[teal]

Where do we find these so-called men?!

I hope you get things sorted xx

 

[Laura2919]

Im wondering it myself Teal. Although FOB has a great relationship and does what he can he couldnt care less about how his life impacts on me! Not one bit. At least I think about how it would make him feel. Cos I am a decent person!

 

[BabySeal]

men, they're all crazy I'm telling ya..