J
Just_married
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Just another rant! Could strangle my man today......this is the 3rd cycle (out of 11) he has decided he needs a wee rest from BD for a night and it just flipping happens to be the day I get 2nd +opk in a row & ov pains.
It wouldn't bother me so much, but it is essentially him that wants to have baby (I would be happy either way) but it's me who has to cheer him up when the witch comes, it's me that's taking soy & getting side effects, it's me that's trying to time BD with ovulation as he doesn't want me to tell him my fertile days in case it makes bedtime fun become about pregnancy & technical.
Sorry girls, I just need to rant. I love him to bits, he's the live of my life but this is cycle 11 and as some of you may know 10 disappointments in a row add up to wanting to do everything possible to make it work. I don't want to say all this to him as I doubt he would really understand and I don't want to make it into an issue where he is scared to gave a night off BDing in case it upsets me, I just wish his timing was better!
Thanks for listening!
I feel better now putting it down in print here.
JM xxx
It wouldn't bother me so much, but it is essentially him that wants to have baby (I would be happy either way) but it's me who has to cheer him up when the witch comes, it's me that's taking soy & getting side effects, it's me that's trying to time BD with ovulation as he doesn't want me to tell him my fertile days in case it makes bedtime fun become about pregnancy & technical.
Sorry girls, I just need to rant. I love him to bits, he's the live of my life but this is cycle 11 and as some of you may know 10 disappointments in a row add up to wanting to do everything possible to make it work. I don't want to say all this to him as I doubt he would really understand and I don't want to make it into an issue where he is scared to gave a night off BDing in case it upsets me, I just wish his timing was better!
Thanks for listening!
I feel better now putting it down in print here.
JM xxx