went to the docs today to get my first can. He did a viginal scan and no fetus showing only the sack. Worst day of my life. Then was rushed to another part of the hospital to book a D&C. Have it booked for tomorrow so guttered and sad. I had no warning. I guess it was a miss missed carriage. i don't think mmc are that rare or i'm just bad luck. spent 5 hours at hospital today being passed around with no time to cry No time to talk nothing. the nurses were very nice to me. I just can't believe it. Any hope for me? when can i start trying again? i'm very thankful to all the great people i have met on this forum. Good luck to you all.