CordeliaJ
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I found out today that we're having a boy.
DH and I, his family, my family and all our friends all thought it was a girl. All the tests and predictions came out girl, and I was so so surprised when the sonographer told us it was a boy, I really was convinced otherwise.
Anyway, I am excited, well I'm certainly trying to be, and DH keeps saying he is too (although honestly I'm not convinced). It's ridiculous because this our first baby and we may have other chances at having a girl down the line. I'm just petrified that I won't have that chance.
I am a girly girl and don't feel like I would know what to do with a boy. DH says he knows he would be too hard on a boy because he has very high standards with grades etc, and he's worried he can't be as comforting to our LO as he would be with a girl.
I'm sure this will all change once he gets here, and I really am looking forward to his arrival, I'm just a bit daunted. I was hoping mums of boys, you could tell me some of the good things about having boys. This is the first time for both of us so we don't know what to expect, I think knowing more about having a boy would really help.
DH and I, his family, my family and all our friends all thought it was a girl. All the tests and predictions came out girl, and I was so so surprised when the sonographer told us it was a boy, I really was convinced otherwise.
Anyway, I am excited, well I'm certainly trying to be, and DH keeps saying he is too (although honestly I'm not convinced). It's ridiculous because this our first baby and we may have other chances at having a girl down the line. I'm just petrified that I won't have that chance.
I am a girly girl and don't feel like I would know what to do with a boy. DH says he knows he would be too hard on a boy because he has very high standards with grades etc, and he's worried he can't be as comforting to our LO as he would be with a girl.
I'm sure this will all change once he gets here, and I really am looking forward to his arrival, I'm just a bit daunted. I was hoping mums of boys, you could tell me some of the good things about having boys. This is the first time for both of us so we don't know what to expect, I think knowing more about having a boy would really help.