Got in a huge argument with someone

[FloridaMom87]

Someone I know came to my house and started throwing a tantrum, she got upset because I wouldn't give her money. I'm sick and tired of giving her money she hardly pays me back. She got so mad she started punching the wall. Anyways, I yelled at her and told her to get out of my house,

My heart started racing really really fast, and I got really shaky. I'm so scared that something bad is gonna happen to the baby health.

Why did my heart race so fast?? Why was I shaky?? Ugh I'm so worried I'm 14 weeks
This hasn't happened to me at all before.

 

[MamaLa]

Probably just the adrenaline from getting so upset.

 

[ToughhGal]

My heart races fast, my hands shake, my face gets red, and sometimes I feel faint or shed tears if I get mad enough. Just try to stay far away from that person as you can, especially if she is punching walls.

 

[TryinFor1]

WTF? Someone came into your house and started punching your walls? Crazy!!!

You will be fine. You were probably just worked up

 

[Dobsd]

Sounds like adrenaline from getting angry. I'm usually placid, but I got really angry a few weeks ago and had the same thing... Heart racing, shaking, heavy breathing. If you're not used to confrontation, that could've brought I an adrenaline rush. I wouldn't worry about it harming baby, but prolonged stress can so I would suggest trying to stay away from this woman as much as you can.

 

[Brightxeyes]

I wouldn't worry about your baby, I have regular panic attacks which is essentially a panicked adrenalin rush, and baby is fine

Obviously it's best to remove any kind of stress from your life. So remove your friend. I wouldn't even be calling her a friend. Friends do not throw tantrums because they can't borrow money.

I'd be too ashamed to even ask my friends for money. Unless we were super close id rather just tell them my money worries and I know if they can help they'd offer it. I wouldn't ask.

And I most certainly wouldn't turn up at their house and punch their walls.

And to top it off your pregnant. You have your own financial changes happening as you prepare for baby.

Remove her from your life.. That is appalling behaviour from a 'friend'.

 

[kazine]

Sounds like this person needs to be removed from your life. She's obviously self-entitled enough that she can DEMAND you lend her money, not a person I'd want in my life.