Graphic miscarriage picture and detail. In shock

I am calling them tomorrow and giving them a piece of my mind!! Thank you babydust818. I can't believe they did this. I am never trusting them again when I'm pregnant. I will switch ob's. It's insane.
 
I am calling them tomorrow and giving them a piece of my mind!! Thank you babydust818. I can't believe they did this. I am never trusting them again when I'm pregnant. I will switch ob's. It's insane.

i wouldn't either! that pisses me off so bad!!!!! WHAT KIND OF IDIOTS DO THIS!!?!?!?! they could have told you before that this might happen, and they freaking put a 0 at the end?! SERIOUSLY?! what kind of mistake is that.. how do you do that!! i wanna call them idiots too
 
Blows my mind that it took how many ppl to realize someone messed up somewhere. That's not very professional.
 
I am so done with that doctors office. It didn't happen once but twice. Unbelievable and I repeated it back to them and they confirmed. Ridiculous and then telling me ultrasound looks great but then found out today I had small bleed outside sac. Insane!!
 
I am so done with that doctors office. It didn't happen once but twice. Unbelievable and I repeated it back to them and they confirmed. Ridiculous and then telling me ultrasound looks great but then found out today I had small bleed outside sac. Insane!!

you know what i would make a complaint to the head ppl. because that is just insane!!! i am so so so sorry you have had to deal with complete insensitive jerks :( and yes they are JERKS :( because they are suppose to care for and worry about all of they're patients!!!! and help all of them!!! :hugs: you don't deserve any of this.
 
Makes my blood boil. Can only imagine how you feel. Take care of yourself. I am so sorry for your loss. All I can say is your rainbow is around the corner and hopefully with new doctors. Time heals everything. Hope you feel closure and peace very soon. :hugs:
 
Thank you all for your support!! I know it's insane how they went about it and hubby and I are so upset that if they got things right from the street and didn't keep saying all is perfect we wouldn't have been so excited! I mean I knew miscarriage is always a possibility but when they said my levels were so high and told all is looking great I was so reassured and so wasn't hubby. They will definitely know how I feel when I go there! And that'll be the last time I do go there!
 
I am 7 weeks 1 day. I passed the sac and then lots of clots and the bleeding has final slowed. The dr said only go to ER when filling pad every hour. The cramps were contraction like and I passed everything I believe within a few hours. Still bleeding with some tissue but I've passed some pretty huge clots after passing sac and baby

The cramps are contractions. They feel worse than labour pains because your body has to contract more to expel the baby. I'm so sorry honey. I saw our baby when I miscarried too. Held it in my hand in the sac for a little while before crumbling to the floor. My deepest deepest condolences to you, if you ever need someone please private message me. Lots of love xx
 
I am so sorry for your loss and how you have been let down by the people that were supposed to be looking after you and giving you reassurance :( thinking of you and your family at this hard time xx
 
Thank you all for your kind and thoughtful words. It helps to be able to talk about it and get it off my chest because the pain emotionally is really hitting me right now. I have to call the dr today to go in because I need an exam. I believe I passed everything last night and when I passed the last of it the bleeding has slowed significantly. The pain went away after I passed one last huge clot and I want to make sure all is okay. Than never go back there again. I'm just hurt and know I can't trust these people again. Thank you all again for listening and your sweet words! It means a lot to me
 
My deepest condolences <3 I had a mmc last Feb and buried our 10 weeker. My thoughts are with you <3

I'm so glad you're switching ob's. I'm so angry for you! For them to get the numbers wrong, not mention the bleed, AND write possible twins???

It's not unheard of, but 70% of twins are hyperovulation fraternals. The likelihood of that happening with a history of PCOS is there, but oh so rare. I'm so so sorry that they got you guys excited only to let you down in so many ways!!!!! <3 :hugs:
 
Thank you LucyLake for your kind words! :) I am also sorry for your loss. I am heartbroken and really thought everything was fine because every appt and ultrasound I was told everything looks great! I am calling them in 5 minutes to be evaluated because I believe all has passed and want to make sure levels are dropping properly and to tell them how I feel!! Thank you for yor support!!
 
I am very sorry you haf to experience something that horrible. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 
Thank you babylove12. It means a lot!
I called nurse today because I wanted to let her know I passed the sac with baby and some big clots and te bleeding slowed to only when I wipe and she said thre was no need to be checked because it sounds like I passed everything well right now I am having contraction like cramps and slightly bleeding again and I think there's still more to come. It's so painful and I just want this over with!! I am so angry with the care they have given me. Well lack of care. Thank you all for your kind words!
 
I would be filing complaints with the state board because to me that is completely bs. A dr is supposed to be more educated/experienced than that. There should be NO screw ups when it comes to health care. I wouldn't even allow them to continue care through this. Find a new dr asap.
 
I completely agree!!! They screwed up way too many times!!! I'm done with them!!! They don't know a thing!!!
 
Hang in there mama and see if you can go to the ER over the next 2 days just to make sure. You don't want to retain and have a d&c later. I passed it in a controlled fashion via misoprostol on towels in the tub so I could bury my baby. Sorry for the tmi--

I started cytotec at 8 am, cramps kicked in at 12 noon...at about 1 am everything stopped and I was bleeding clots. I woke up at 8 am after shockingly nice sleep and got into the tub because I could feel things between my legs.. Squatted a d out came my little baby and the start of the placenta.

I want to caution you because 3 days later I was showering after a scan confirmed I was clear and a 15 cm sac fell out :(

So definitely just be sure <3 lots of love, I know there is nothing that can remove your pain right now <3. Prayers that next year at this time, you're celebrating bittersweet but uplifting rainbow news <3
 
I had the same thing happen to me last night... I had what I thought were just killer cramps and the same bleeding, thought I had to pee and went to "pee" and the sac with the baby inside comes out.. and we were both 7 w 3 days... I am so sorry you had to go through this. I KNOW how hard it is , seeing as we both went through it a day apart.. I'm glad I have you to talk to about this. I'm still in shock right now. I just got back from hospital at 3 this morning and im on so much pain medicine, yet I still cant sleep at all. I'm distraught and no one should ever have to hold there tiny little baby like this. this is not how I imagined holding my little one :( I thought everything was fine. the baby had such a strong heartbeat Tuesday. then weds night at 11 this bullshit happens. I'm so upset and heartbroken. the baby is just back in the lab being tested on. I cant stop thinking about it and reliving it. :( please let me know if you need anything. I'm glad we have each other to talk too.
 
LuckyLake, that you for your very kind words. I want to go get checked out in a few days because the pain is bad when t comes on and I know there's more to pass. Only tiny clts now after the initial miscarriage an passing of the sac and some bigger clots. I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your experience with me. My heart is broken and at times I almost feel numb and other times the stupidest things break my heart. I just received a voicemail from the ultrasound office about my ultrasound I was suppose to have Tuesday when I was supposed to be 8 weeks. I am so upset. Thank you again <3

annaaabanana, I am so sort about your loss. I am glad we can talk to each other about it and be support for one another. It's horrible and these nothing to make it better. One day we will have our rainbows when time is right and it's so hard to make sense of it all but one day it will. Take it a day at a time and try to get some rest. I am so sorry! <3 :::hugs:::
 

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