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This is longggg so i apoligse!
FOB is being a f***ing pain in the ass i could kill him!
Started off with him now yet again thinking he can text me a few hours before saying he needs to bring maisie home when he has her. He only bloody has her saturday overnight! I got a solicitors contract done up earlier this year because he was a complete nob messing around and i didnt want it no more. The contract says that he can have her friday 4.00pm - sunday 5.30pm. He agreed to the solicitor but then told me he couldnt have her fridays because of 'football' saturday mornings ( which i later found out was a lie, and that he jsut goes out friday nights)
So it changed to saturday 4.00pm-sunday 5.30pm. The first week was fine, the second week i got a text around 12pm sunday saying 'can i drop maisie home at 2.30 as i need to go help my dad' errmm nope, i had loads to do and wanted to get it done and have a nice bath before she came home, so i lied and told him i was out so he couldn't. The week after he wanted to bring her home at 3.30pm, i just said ok, then the week after again it was around 4pm. Saturday just gone i had a message on saturday night before he picked her up saying 'im dropping maisie home at 9.30am tomorrow'. Erm no your not, i have plans. Sunday is my only nearly full day to get things done i want to get done without maisie there, seeing as though she dont get picked up till 4pm on saturday i dont do much after shes gone because its dark so sunday is the only day. I messaged him back but didnt get a reply, so i text his mum. I made it clear i didnt want an argument, but that i wasn;t going to let him start picking and choosing what times he wanted to bring her back and what was best for him! She said shed have a word and sort it out, i then got a lovely message back on facebook calling me a fucking liar and a snide and all this blah blah.
I told him the exact reason i went to his mum was because of that reaction. Everytime i pick up on something with him he goes off on one and starts shouting the odds, and i aint standing for it no more.
Ive got the messages here so you can see how he was! Then when he came to pick her up he didnt say a word to me, i didnt want an arugment cus id never argue infront of maisie but i asked him why he spoke to me like that and he just walked away.
The reason i said sort your life out was because his mum had said to me in text that hed been driving her mad lately and was lashing out at everybody because apparently ' he cant get a job the poor boy' even though they told me he got laid off from his previous job and i recently found out from someone who works there that he got sacked for being a twat!
GRR! Can he really just speak to me like this and get away with it? Its his birthday wednesday and im supposed to be going to get him sometihng off maisie and now i dont even know if i should waste even a penny of MY money on him,even though its from maisie its still my money and i cringe at the thought of any of it going to him when he doesnt give me fuck all maintence.
Sorry this is the longest rant ever lol. GRR!
FOB is being a f***ing pain in the ass i could kill him!
Started off with him now yet again thinking he can text me a few hours before saying he needs to bring maisie home when he has her. He only bloody has her saturday overnight! I got a solicitors contract done up earlier this year because he was a complete nob messing around and i didnt want it no more. The contract says that he can have her friday 4.00pm - sunday 5.30pm. He agreed to the solicitor but then told me he couldnt have her fridays because of 'football' saturday mornings ( which i later found out was a lie, and that he jsut goes out friday nights)
So it changed to saturday 4.00pm-sunday 5.30pm. The first week was fine, the second week i got a text around 12pm sunday saying 'can i drop maisie home at 2.30 as i need to go help my dad' errmm nope, i had loads to do and wanted to get it done and have a nice bath before she came home, so i lied and told him i was out so he couldn't. The week after he wanted to bring her home at 3.30pm, i just said ok, then the week after again it was around 4pm. Saturday just gone i had a message on saturday night before he picked her up saying 'im dropping maisie home at 9.30am tomorrow'. Erm no your not, i have plans. Sunday is my only nearly full day to get things done i want to get done without maisie there, seeing as though she dont get picked up till 4pm on saturday i dont do much after shes gone because its dark so sunday is the only day. I messaged him back but didnt get a reply, so i text his mum. I made it clear i didnt want an argument, but that i wasn;t going to let him start picking and choosing what times he wanted to bring her back and what was best for him! She said shed have a word and sort it out, i then got a lovely message back on facebook calling me a fucking liar and a snide and all this blah blah.
I told him the exact reason i went to his mum was because of that reaction. Everytime i pick up on something with him he goes off on one and starts shouting the odds, and i aint standing for it no more.
Ive got the messages here so you can see how he was! Then when he came to pick her up he didnt say a word to me, i didnt want an arugment cus id never argue infront of maisie but i asked him why he spoke to me like that and he just walked away.
Matty Hewitt
y the fuk u sayin to my mom that i drop her back every week at different times. wat a fukin liar, every sunday maisie gets dropped off at the same times n wen i have her overnight in the week ther ent no set times so dnt even try that one either
SaturdayLaura Towner
Err wtf? No you don't you've only ever droppd her of at 5.30 the week when I come home! The week after that u tried to drop her home early but I was out then the week after that she was back at 3! U never drop her back at the same time so don't even try nd say you do. and don't swear at me! I told ur mom I don't want arguments . If you can't agree to bring her back at 5.30 every week. Then don't bother having her. U aint gonna pick and choose what times is best for you!
SaturdayLaura Towner
and I'm not on bout weekdays I'm on about the weekend.
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
snide
SaturdayLaura Towner
Can you keep her till the time we set or not cus if not then we can sort another time out cus it aint going to be different times every single week to suit you. If its gonna carry on then she won't stay. and the exact reason I spoke to your mom is because you talk to me like that every single time!!
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
hu r u, u cnt tell me if she stays or not, n goin to ma mom boo hoo get a grip
SaturdayLaura Towner
U upset cus ur mom knows I'm being reasonable? I love how you can never talk to me face to face but such a keyboard warrior!
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
laur a little fact for u my mom hates u y u think she parks round the corner cuz she dnt even wonna look at u, the only reason i dnt tlk to u face to face is cuz my fuikin daughters ther u mong
n y wud i wonna tlk to u face to face for :S
SaturdayLaura Towner
Lmaooo ok and see there u go again we don't have to argue u cudnt even talk to me ur that sad. Seriously carry on talking to me like that matthew. Sort out ur own life n stop tekin it out on everybody else.
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
lol y did i need to talk to u? nuffink u say is gna even gonna enter my head to even think about it, i hate to admit it laur but my life is sorted, my life is good iv got what i need n get anythink i want so dnt wish my life away that easy
y the fuk u sayin to my mom that i drop her back every week at different times. wat a fukin liar, every sunday maisie gets dropped off at the same times n wen i have her overnight in the week ther ent no set times so dnt even try that one either
SaturdayLaura Towner
Err wtf? No you don't you've only ever droppd her of at 5.30 the week when I come home! The week after that u tried to drop her home early but I was out then the week after that she was back at 3! U never drop her back at the same time so don't even try nd say you do. and don't swear at me! I told ur mom I don't want arguments . If you can't agree to bring her back at 5.30 every week. Then don't bother having her. U aint gonna pick and choose what times is best for you!
SaturdayLaura Towner
and I'm not on bout weekdays I'm on about the weekend.
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
snide
SaturdayLaura Towner
Can you keep her till the time we set or not cus if not then we can sort another time out cus it aint going to be different times every single week to suit you. If its gonna carry on then she won't stay. and the exact reason I spoke to your mom is because you talk to me like that every single time!!
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
hu r u, u cnt tell me if she stays or not, n goin to ma mom boo hoo get a grip
SaturdayLaura Towner
U upset cus ur mom knows I'm being reasonable? I love how you can never talk to me face to face but such a keyboard warrior!
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
laur a little fact for u my mom hates u y u think she parks round the corner cuz she dnt even wonna look at u, the only reason i dnt tlk to u face to face is cuz my fuikin daughters ther u mong
n y wud i wonna tlk to u face to face for :S
SaturdayLaura Towner
Lmaooo ok and see there u go again we don't have to argue u cudnt even talk to me ur that sad. Seriously carry on talking to me like that matthew. Sort out ur own life n stop tekin it out on everybody else.
SaturdayMatty Hewitt
lol y did i need to talk to u? nuffink u say is gna even gonna enter my head to even think about it, i hate to admit it laur but my life is sorted, my life is good iv got what i need n get anythink i want so dnt wish my life away that easy
The reason i said sort your life out was because his mum had said to me in text that hed been driving her mad lately and was lashing out at everybody because apparently ' he cant get a job the poor boy' even though they told me he got laid off from his previous job and i recently found out from someone who works there that he got sacked for being a twat!
GRR! Can he really just speak to me like this and get away with it? Its his birthday wednesday and im supposed to be going to get him sometihng off maisie and now i dont even know if i should waste even a penny of MY money on him,even though its from maisie its still my money and i cringe at the thought of any of it going to him when he doesnt give me fuck all maintence.
Sorry this is the longest rant ever lol. GRR!
I dont care if I am sitting down on my sofa on my lonesome, he is their dad and should rightly have them. He has them every other weekend and it never changes. I've never asked for it to changed, he tried once and got a nice big fat no chance! Lol.. 
! which he then told me 'you aint no friend of mine'! 
