grr who does he think he is!

[SophiasMummy]

Well some people might remember a couple threads ive had before about FOB ignoring me and refusing to see LO and also not paying maintenance or buying any xmas or b day presents. Well today FOBs sister asked to come see sophia which is fine, I even contacted her a couple weeks ago to see if she knew why FOB was being an ass, which she said she didnt know why hes acting how he is. Anyway so LOs aunt turned up this afternoon and who was with her? None other than FOB himself just stood there grinning at me and talking like everythings fine and like he hadnt been ignoring his daughter since last november, I didnt get any text from him saying he was coming over which I told him he can come over whenever as long as he lets me know he wants to come over first esp as my dog hates him so I have to send the dog to a friends if hes coming round, I didnt even get a fuking apology he just acted like everything was fine telling me about himself getting pissed with mates the other nite (yet he cant afford to pay for his daughter!) argh he just so selfish and I couldnt even say anything to him as his sister was there and I wouldve felt rude. Im so angry right now its unreal, dont get me wrong im happy LO saw her dad but it just common courtesy to tell someone your coming esp as my poor pup had to spend 3 hours shut in my room until FOB left

rant over feel a bit more mellow now.

 

[Blue_star]

Sorry to hear that I think maybe he isn't very good at communicating things for himself so he had to just show up with his sister.

That's kind of funny that even the dog hates him lol

 

[dustbunny]

What a pathetic man to only face the situation with his family as backup. Maybe you should text him or something reminding him of who him coming over should work, not having him tag along to family members. Seeing as he has been absent since November he just can't expect to literally turn up on your door. -hugs-

 

[baby8]

Hes out of order! you really should put your foot down

 

[Laura2919]

Well his sister could have told you he was coming! I'd be peed off too! I don't think I'd have let him in

 

[Gunnhilde]

I would have confronted him then and there. I've even told FOB's parents exactly how I feel about them letting their son live rent free in a million dollar house, get a free car, and be involved with their family when he could give a rat's ass about his own daughter. I actually cut off some of my own family because they continue to associate with my father, who is the same way. You need to tell them about his behavior and if they tolerate it from him, you don't have to be nice to them.

 

[SophiasMummy]

I only speak to FOBs 2 sisters the rest of his family dont care about LO at all. The only reason I put up with anyone in his family is for LO so when she is older she cant accuse me of not letting her dad and his family see her. To be honest she doesnt even know who any of them are but she will cuddle and play with anyone which is lucky for them as plenty of kids wont go near people they barely know. FoB mum hates me anyway she only met me twice and decided im stuck up just because I was quiet around her, FOBs familys motto is pretty much they dont care about eachother and just get on with there own individual lives, I found out FOBs sister has got a tattoo of my LOs name on her foot aswell lmao shes only met her 3 times!