Grrr!!!

[dustbunny]

How on Earth do I get it into the FOB's head that I don't want to get back with him?! He is a major liability, liar and immature. A couple of weeks ago I might have considered it but when I broke up with him he didn't even bat an eyelid which I didn't mind. But he keeps texting me random texts which I don't even see the point in replying to because there is nothing to reply to and he tells his mum I'm ignoring him. He text my mum saying he wanted to reassure her that he still loved me and had explained it all to me... he hasn't explained anything to me or talked to me about it. It frustrates me as he plays this hard done by act which no one else seems to be able to see through. I'm tired of being the bad guy throughout this and getting blamed for everything... literally everything, he has done nothing wrong in his little world. This morning I woke to a random text that he was going to "steal me away to Devon for a few days to show me some little shops."
So, this may seem mean, I'm just not responding to his pathetic messages anymore. He hasn't sent one text asking about the baby or phoned asking about the baby and when on the rare occasions he does it is literally a 1 min convo. No matter what I tell him he ignores it and twists it into me being in the wrong. And I'm still waiting for a thank you for the 2 hour drive to give him the scan photos.
Am I doing the right thing?

 

[Laura2919]

Sounds like you know what you want and that is a good thing, if you really dont want him back then ignore anything you may hear from others. Tell him if he doesnt stop you will change your number, your not interested.

 

[cluelessnow]

Sorry to hear you're so frustrated. If you've already explained why you're not taking him seriously anymore or what you would like to see from him, then I think you're doing the right thing if that's what you want and he's not changing. Take care of yourself and LO.

 

[Mally01]

Stick to your guns hun and keep ignoring him, he is just stressing you out and you don't need that. He is not thinking logically at all. If he wants you back this means baby comes too, you are kind of a package deal right now. Sounds like its best for you. Some men just don't get how right from the get go, baby is Number 1, end of. They think we can discard it or not be bothered whether we have a baby or not which makes most of us boil with rage.