dustbunny
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So today I was feeling in a nice mood and updated FOB with the fact that this morning I was woken by hiccups and being kicked... first proper baby movements and I thought he should be told about it. Bear in mind, as you all know, he hasn't bothered to keep in touch.... his excuse being "my phone has been acting up the past couple of weeks so I dont know if you got my texts." ... completely forgot to properly read the memo about only ever contacting people via mobile phones, because I mean facebook... or a good old fashioned land line is WAY out there on the concepts front!!
Back on track... he just made some 'witty' joke about who needs alarm clocks...yawn... so I asked if he had got a job yet and then I get an about the bush answer of no. Bear in mind he has had since July [and that is being generous!!] to find a job and in the same time I have gained 1 job, volunteer work and another interview tomorrow for another job and therefore upgraded my references from Uni lecturers... so I suggested he might be better off just finding a job for money for the baby to which the convo went as:
Him: Yes I know I am. x
Me: Cool cool, just saying as july was a while ago. x
Me: I know you dont like it but at some point we have to talk about the money side.
Him: I know we do x
Me: Good. How much will you contribute to the nursery and how much do you envisage for maintenance? x
4th time I have brought up money and 4th time no reply... nothing, silence, dead air. So... I don't overly know what to do now. I think my plan is to go back to waiting to see if he contacts me asking about the baby and if he doesn't bother then he is the one fucking missing out. I'm not begging for money!!
Oh... and to add fuel to the fire of hatred which I am now maintaining light for... for the man [cough...boy...cough] who can not stop talking about the baby, it is all he ever talks about... he met up with some friends at the weekend who I dont think he knows talk to me... he said not one word about the baby the entire time. Strange that, for someone who talks non stop about it.
...... and to top it all off yesterday evening I was sat in a crisis centre for my attention seeking sister who was threatening to kill herself and was angry that they didn't section her....
What did I do in my old life??!?!?!?!
-end of rant....for now-
Back on track... he just made some 'witty' joke about who needs alarm clocks...yawn... so I asked if he had got a job yet and then I get an about the bush answer of no. Bear in mind he has had since July [and that is being generous!!] to find a job and in the same time I have gained 1 job, volunteer work and another interview tomorrow for another job and therefore upgraded my references from Uni lecturers... so I suggested he might be better off just finding a job for money for the baby to which the convo went as:
Him: Yes I know I am. x
Me: Cool cool, just saying as july was a while ago. x
Me: I know you dont like it but at some point we have to talk about the money side.
Him: I know we do x
Me: Good. How much will you contribute to the nursery and how much do you envisage for maintenance? x
4th time I have brought up money and 4th time no reply... nothing, silence, dead air. So... I don't overly know what to do now. I think my plan is to go back to waiting to see if he contacts me asking about the baby and if he doesn't bother then he is the one fucking missing out. I'm not begging for money!!
Oh... and to add fuel to the fire of hatred which I am now maintaining light for... for the man [cough...boy...cough] who can not stop talking about the baby, it is all he ever talks about... he met up with some friends at the weekend who I dont think he knows talk to me... he said not one word about the baby the entire time. Strange that, for someone who talks non stop about it.
...... and to top it all off yesterday evening I was sat in a crisis centre for my attention seeking sister who was threatening to kill herself and was angry that they didn't section her....
What did I do in my old life??!?!?!?!
-end of rant....for now-
hun. 
