guess what??im STILL not pregnant :(

[missy123]

I really thought after hubbys varicocele operation in June that i would get pregnant straight away
how wrong was I????
due af on monday im crippled with pain and still stupidly decided to test..BFN
ill be 5 years ttc in May finding it all too hard to deal with!!!

 

[CHILLbilly]

Oh I am soooo sorry your feeling this way......


It must be such a let down that the operation didn't result in a quick bfp.....
The only thing I can say is Try to stay positive and try to live for you and try to not overthink LTTTC....same advice I NEED myself!!!!!!
(I'm going on year 4..... so i kind of understand how u feel)

Oh hun...i hope you're feeling better and if AF does come it is painless and quick!

 

[missy123]

Thanks so much..im eating chocolate and watching "one born every minute"not a great idea

 

[Chels710]

Hey Missy, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I had a polyp removed in August and the dr. said he thought I would get pregnant in no time. Well, 6 month's later and no bfp. This month marks the 5 year mark for me too and it's miserable. I'm also on the couch today with chocolate.

Good luck. I really do hope your baby dreams come true very soon.

 

[missy123]

Thanks hun xx same to you.
It breaks my heart knowing others are going through this torture x

 

[CHILLbilly]

It is absoute torture BUT this site has helped me get thro it all.....
chocolate sounds good, as does a bottle of wine!!

 

[Armywife84]

So sorry to hear that!

After any sort of (fertility related) surgery you can't help but think that you're chances have greatly increased. We have to cling on to some sort of hope in order to make it thru this nightmare.

 

[mjemma]

I know, it's so difficult when you get your hopes up. I had surgery to remove dermoid cysts in July and was sure I would get pregnant soon after. Now I have just had another surgery to remove adhesions caused by the first one, but I just can't feel as optimistic this time.