jo14
Mum of 4
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I was so scared but had no choice as, my letter for my scan arrived at her house, (complicated) but during my last preg I had to change my address to hers as the midwifes would not visit my house as it was out of there durisdiction for the hospital i wanted to attend, and obviously at the hospital they not changed it back, so my mum who is 76 and my dad 82 (they were "older" when they accidentally had me lol) my bro and sister are a lot older than me, sorry I digress back to the point, mum rang me to say there is a letter here from the hospital for you, are you ok, I said fine nothing wrong its probably junk will call for it after work ( and promptly hung up) thinking OHHHH NOOOO what am i gonna say, anways by the time i get there mother is sat looking like death warmed up and dad is waiting by the door with the letter in his hand saying we thought it was important and they both just stood there staring at me, so i opened it and tried to change subject from the letter and mum goes just tell me what wrong with you, she had decided I needed my head amputating or something i think LOL so i just said its nothing to worry about I am pregnant, at which point she looked like she might faint, then started to almost cry (not happy tears) and started saying how did that happen i thought you had a coil, so I said i DID i have it removed to have a baby, its not an accident, mark has no children and we decided to try now before i got any older, she then flapped about how I would "cope" etc then my Dad came out with the classic oh well you will have to get the divorce sorted as you will need to get married HA HA HA anyway since then about 5 days ago she has not said a great deal except a few phone calls to say things like i need checks as im OLD lol and did I FORCE mark into it, and other things that would probably shock most people but its just the way my mum is, but she also offered to come to my first appointment with me so its not all bad!!!