Novbaby08
Mom to Harley & Piper
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So everyone that knows the story of all thats gone on with my ex know he deserves nothing but the worst and doesn't deserve to ever see Harley again. And because I didnt put him on her birth certificate all is possible.
Anyways his family has decided they want to be part of her life and start seeing her saturdays so I told his sister if thats truly how they feel they have to stick with it. they cant pop in and out of her life. so I knew it was only a matter of time before they finally approached me with the forbidden question "Can tyler come" and they did. Begged me to give him one more chance, etc. So I told them yesterday fine he has till midnight tonight to call and negotiate something with me. after midnight it will be over he will never again get this chance. and I will accept no contact from him again.
11:30pm rolls by and his sister sends me a text asking if the deadline can be moved till tomorrow because he isnt home. I write back saying no. I'm not doing this on his time. He either calls by midnight or tell him to forget he even has a daughter because he'll never see her again.
Midnight comes and nothing! So I sent his sister and dad a text letting them no that what i said still stands. He is not welcome in my house. And saturday is no exception. and if he shows up make sure he dresses warmly because hes going to be freezing his ass off standing outside. lol
I DID IT I FINALLY DID IT! I've never turned him down before when it came to Harley. I've always given in and then hated myself for it. This is a huge step for me
Anyways his family has decided they want to be part of her life and start seeing her saturdays so I told his sister if thats truly how they feel they have to stick with it. they cant pop in and out of her life. so I knew it was only a matter of time before they finally approached me with the forbidden question "Can tyler come" and they did. Begged me to give him one more chance, etc. So I told them yesterday fine he has till midnight tonight to call and negotiate something with me. after midnight it will be over he will never again get this chance. and I will accept no contact from him again.
11:30pm rolls by and his sister sends me a text asking if the deadline can be moved till tomorrow because he isnt home. I write back saying no. I'm not doing this on his time. He either calls by midnight or tell him to forget he even has a daughter because he'll never see her again.
Midnight comes and nothing! So I sent his sister and dad a text letting them no that what i said still stands. He is not welcome in my house. And saturday is no exception. and if he shows up make sure he dresses warmly because hes going to be freezing his ass off standing outside. lol
I DID IT I FINALLY DID IT! I've never turned him down before when it came to Harley. I've always given in and then hated myself for it. This is a huge step for me
You shold be incredibly brave....your way or no way etc its not right for FOB to mess you around time and time again! xx
