half of family found out

[Kris0309]

Last week I went to my fob/bf grandmother wake and i had on a white fitted shirt i didnt think i looked too pregnant(mind you i didnt think everyone knew) . my bf sisterin law kept asking me questions saying i look pregnant. whihc i guess i did well i knew my bfs brother knew too.so after that me ,bf, his father,brother sis in law ,sister, sisters bf and her friend went out to dinner. his mom didnt come. well long story short by the end of it when my bf walked away from the table i found out that everyone knew. and my bf didnt know they all knew so then i told him they all knew and his dad drove w/ us on the way home and kept asking us questions like am i seeing a doctor what are we plannign to do financially and me with school. and i was so upset so i hate confrentation i almost cried and he offered me and my bf and the baby to live with him and he would help us.now i need to tell my mom and sister and his mom

 

[Rach276]

I havent told any on my fam yet and im dreading it!

 

[Kris0309]

im dreading tellign my mom.

 

[Vickie]

As hard as it is you both need to tell your parent(s), the sooner the better Good luck

 

[leeanne]

I definitely agree with Vickie!

Good luck hon!

 

[Sarah-Jane]

I didn't even tell my mum... she found out on Tuesday night when she found a pregnancy book digging in her back which had slipped down the side of the chair.
Obviously I had to confront her then because I couldn't stand lying to everyone any more.
She burst into tears and absolutely hit the roof (and I mean went mental) demanding I find somewhere else to live and she'll never be there and all sorts.
Me and my mum have never got on due to her drinking issues and her never being there for me (I'm a Daddy's Girl) and when she found out, she wasn't exactly sober so I told her I'd speak to her the next day.
Don't get me wrong, she was quite disappointed in me and questioned me about an abortion and how we're going to cope with my OH moving to Uni but do you know what... Last night (Thursday) we have never got on so well since I can remember, she was asking if I was going to find out the sex, seeing if I want a 3D scan, making sure I'm moisturising my very tiny bump, seeing how I liked the midwife and everything. Her and my Dad have even said I can have the spare room as a nursery and they'll help me decorate it and everything. Don't get me wrong, they're not over the moon but they are beginning to come to terms with it and I already feel this is bringing me and my mum closer already
So all could work well for you. Just tell them soon, because my mum did say she was hurt with the fact that I kept it from her for so long
Good luck and everything will work out
xxx S.J xxx

 

[Laura--x]

aww hun
however hard it is
its so much better to be honest and open with them, theyll appreciate you alot more for being mature enough to tell her about the situation.
they may be shcocked and dissapointed at first but they will come round !

 

[BeckyBoo]

When I was pregnant for my son at 17, telling my mum was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I was so scared. My mum went through a range of emotions in about 2 mins. Anger, disappointment and then understanding. We discussed what I wanted to do. And that I wanted to raise him myself, I'd take advice, but I wanted to be a real mother. And after that the pregnancy was so much more enjoyable.

Best of luck.

 

[tasha41]

I'm about at the same point you are and I think I'd just DIE if someone asked me if I was pregnant.. I keep wearing loose shirts and sweaters and stuff to hide it. It'd be sooo awkward for unknowing family members or people at school or a stranger to ask.

too bad they found out like that but hope telling your family goes well!

 

[cuddles314]

Hope it goes well telling the rest of your family. Honestly it may not seem that way, but you will feel better once it's out in the open.
xx