Has anyone here had a water birth and actually delivered in the water!?
I have! I loved it
I really want to have a water birth but dont know anyone that has had it .. or not really much about it ..
how soon do i tell the hospital i want a water birth.. and what sort of things could stop me having it..?!
I would recommend telling the hospital/your midwife/gp as soon as possible, just to plan and I guess it can't hurt telling them now. Things that could stop you having it would be if you were to be induced, or if you had an infection.
what was it like ... does it really help with pain .. and will the hospital guarantee that i can have one !? .. or is it sort of if there is space you can ..
I found it really relaxing. I'm the sort that loves having a nice soak in the bath, and I just thought it was really comfortable. I can't say whether it helped with the pain per se, as I was in there from when I got to the hospital at 7cm to when I gave birth. But I didn't find that my pains were too bad over all - but then again my waters had to be broken around transition stage so that would have helped cushion the pain.
People say that water helps reduce tearing - that one I'm not sure about but I can see how in theory that would be true. I had a 2nd deg labial tear, a 2nd degree vaginal tear and some 1st deg vaginal internal tears. Pretty standard really I think, but I guess I don't have much to compare it with!
I would say that whether you could have a water birth or not (if conditions were suitable) would be as you have listed - if birthing pool was not an option or unavailable at that time. At the hospital I birthed at, there were about seven rooms with birthing pools (they looked a bit like jacuzzis) so I was lucky that there was that option!
also im worried the midwife may try and put me of if its too much hassle for them !? ... i dont nooo ..
I wouldn't say it's any more hassle for them than a birth on dry land. It's your right to have a water birth - if it's what you really want, stick to your guns. I think you'll love it
I would have one again next time for definite!
just like to no abit more from some that has experianced it at all !! ..
Thanx
A few more bits and bobs...
One - I did poo while pushing (it is VERY common) and, erm, it does float past if the midwife isn't fast enough to scoop it - mine had a net
So it's harder to miss than it may be if you were on a bed.
More mess - when pushing and once baby comes out there will be mess in the water. I didn't find it to be overly gory though, and I quite liked the fact that when my son came out of the water he wasn't as gunky as he might have been had he not been born in the water 
I think my son being born in water was a lovely experience for not just me but for him too, he was very calm when he came out and looked me right in the face 
When birthing in the water, you cannot have an epidural or anything intravenous but (if available) you can have gas and air - I used this and found it really helpful to relax me between contractions. It doesn't take the pain away really but takes your mind off things.
I think that's all from me (sorry for the ramble) - wishing you all the best!