mrs-mickeyd2b
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this is a long story.
i found out i was 5 and a half weeks pregnant on march the 31st. my gran died that day so it couldnt of happened at a worse time. i held back from telling my mum for a while coz of the situation. i told my boyfriend and his first reaction was "no get rid!" but i felt as if i couldnt. i told his mam and she said it was my decision but they would support 110% whatever i chose to do. i told my mum last week and her first reaction was "oh my god..!" we havnt told my dad yet because we dont live with him..but we do need to tell him asap before he finds out of somebody else. i could tell my mum was pushing abortion on me because she was making sly comments. she got my aunty down who agreed to take me to BPAS to discuss abortion. it wasnt what i wanted. and i told the nurse this when i go there and decided on keeping the baby. i had a scan and discovered i was only 8 weeks. so not to far along. i went home and told my mum that i was keeping the baby and shes accepted it. although she is not happy at all about the idea. my boyfriend now is over the moon and says he wouldnt change it for the world. he cant wait to be a daddy. his whole family are over the moon with the idea!! my boyfriends life is sorted..he's 18. has a full time job of a wagon machanic..gets £600+ a month. goes to college one day a week to improve his skills, lives at home with his mam and dad, his mam spoils him, he drives and we've been together over a year and a half. weve never cheated on each other, or even fell out! so we are in a really strong relationship. but he now wants to do boxing, kickboxing and all these extra activities. he goes through phases. im worried that him wanting to be a dad is just a phase. he wont have time to do any of these new hobbies after decemeber. his life is sorted. i cant even go to college next year to get my level 3 beauty therapy (i finish level 2 in june)! one minute im so excited to have the baby and the next im dreadin it because of my education stops in june. is this normal to feel this way??
i found out i was 5 and a half weeks pregnant on march the 31st. my gran died that day so it couldnt of happened at a worse time. i held back from telling my mum for a while coz of the situation. i told my boyfriend and his first reaction was "no get rid!" but i felt as if i couldnt. i told his mam and she said it was my decision but they would support 110% whatever i chose to do. i told my mum last week and her first reaction was "oh my god..!" we havnt told my dad yet because we dont live with him..but we do need to tell him asap before he finds out of somebody else. i could tell my mum was pushing abortion on me because she was making sly comments. she got my aunty down who agreed to take me to BPAS to discuss abortion. it wasnt what i wanted. and i told the nurse this when i go there and decided on keeping the baby. i had a scan and discovered i was only 8 weeks. so not to far along. i went home and told my mum that i was keeping the baby and shes accepted it. although she is not happy at all about the idea. my boyfriend now is over the moon and says he wouldnt change it for the world. he cant wait to be a daddy. his whole family are over the moon with the idea!! my boyfriends life is sorted..he's 18. has a full time job of a wagon machanic..gets £600+ a month. goes to college one day a week to improve his skills, lives at home with his mam and dad, his mam spoils him, he drives and we've been together over a year and a half. weve never cheated on each other, or even fell out! so we are in a really strong relationship. but he now wants to do boxing, kickboxing and all these extra activities. he goes through phases. im worried that him wanting to be a dad is just a phase. he wont have time to do any of these new hobbies after decemeber. his life is sorted. i cant even go to college next year to get my level 3 beauty therapy (i finish level 2 in june)! one minute im so excited to have the baby and the next im dreadin it because of my education stops in june. is this normal to feel this way??
iv been intouch with newcastle college (via email last week) and they have replied back today saying for me to go to my interview on the 16th of may and a student advisor will guide me to a part time course and child care 
luckily though..my OH's family are healthy! 
