Having a bad day

[R&G2007]

Is anyone else having a bad day today???????

I have just recieved a text message from a family member saying that my husbands cousin is having her baby today and now I feel really down.

Don't get me wrong I am happy from her but it always makes me sad when I hear news like this as we are trying so hard to coneieve ourselves.

 

[ReikiBaby]

Is anyone else having a bad day today???????

I have just recieved a text message from a family member saying that my husbands cousin is having her baby today and now I feel really down.

Don't get me wrong I am happy from her but it always makes me sad when I hear news like this as we are trying so hard to coneieve ourselves.

Sister, I hear ya. Today I saw a random posting on Facebook by a random person I know that she is going for an ultrasound today, and all kinds of people congratulated her, and all of a sudden I felt really down. And I don't even know this girl that well!

Basically anyone saying anything about being pregnant gets me down these days... so I totally understand

 

[R&G2007]

I am even worse today, I am on the verge of tears as the photo of the new baby has been sent to us this morning

 

[Oneday]

i know how you feel its hard but i think it gets easier with time. I've been trying for a second baby for nearly 3 years now. Had a m/c followed by an ectopic and had to suffer seeing at the pregnant mums and babies for months whilst taking my son to pre-school. Its an awful feeling but it does get better x

 

[R&G2007]

I hope so, its heart breaking and the thing is I know I am being really misrable and horrible to my hubby but I cant help it.

I hope we all get our dream soon.

 

[wishful think]

Ah R&G2007, i know just how u feel. It just seems like everyone around me is getting pregnant!! A few close friends and my sister!! I had to go for my 21 day blood test this morning and u will never guess what was on in the clinic - a baby clinic day!!! So i had to sit there for almost an hour while parent after parent came in and wheeled their babies past me!! I actually sat there thinking - "that's not fair they have 2 / 3 / 4 kids with them and all i want is one!!!!" Its really horrible!! Most days i just put on a smile and if friends ask how are things 'baby wise', i just say "ah sure what can u do, it will happen some day" even though i would just love to fall to pieces crying but what's the point cause all they're gonna say is don't worry u will have a baby when the time is right!!!! If i hear that one more time i will scream!! Sorry just had to have that rant!!! R&G2007 i hope u feel better soon and lean on your hubbie for chats and comfort cause i'm sure he needs it too!!!!

 

[Sambatiki]

Oh sweetie

Its always hard to see others so happy when our hearts are breaking

Hope you feel better soon

 

[Faithpatience]

I can absolutely understand what u mean...we have been ttc for almost 2 yrs now and my fam n friends who strtd after me have their baby already and now to make my life more harder my Uni friend said she is pregg.. They jus tried it once here they go Bang... I happy for her but Iam not in a position to hear to all her pregg talks on phone as I get upset.. And now she is even askin to meet up for a chat.. O can't face her I will break down...

 

[R&G2007]

Hubby doesnt want tio tell anyone , but I can't cope with the "so when are you going to have children" question, I just want to scream at them that we cant.

Why do hospitals put the fertility client right next to the anti natel, like we are not all depressed and upset enough

I have just had a bit of good news though, my sister has asked me to be god mother to the newist member of our family little Stanley

 

[wishful think]

ah thats lovely R&G2007, my sister is due in May and she has asked me to be godmother too. I'm really chuffed at that cause i have no god children yet so it was really nice of her to ask. Something to look forward to xx

 

[R&G2007]

I can't wait as I love my two nephews to bits. just have to find a suitable gift now

 

[Starbright]

Hubby doesnt want tio tell anyone , but I can't cope with the "so when are you going to have children" question, I just want to scream at them that we cant.

I was like that at first - kept it hidden from everyone but my parents and brother. But I found it really hard to keep smiling at people and pretending everything was normal when I felt so sad and lost.
So recently I've started telling a few of my closest friends. They've been really supportive so far and it's such a relief to get things off my chest!

I know just how you're feeling ((Hugs)). Hope you start to feel a bit better soon.
Congrats on being a godmum xx

 

[R&G2007]

I hope we all get good news soon : ))))

 

[R&G2007]

Oh god another woman at work (sits oposite) has just annoued that she is pregnant. So now I have a lady sitting next to me and one in front, facing me. Am I being punished dealing with one was bad enough but this is just plain unbearable

 

[daisii]

R&G i am totally with you! I am 29 and there 8 women I work with about the same age, all the others are in their 50's. I am the only one who has not had at least one baby in the last 2 years (yes some of the fertile mirtles have had 2!!!!). It is so unfair, I feel the same every time one of them announces a pregnancy, shows a scan picture or goes on maternity leave. No one I work with knows I am TTC (over 2 years now), and I don't want to tell them. But fending off all the "ooh it'll be you next!" I can't take it anymore!!!!

To top it all off I am on my first round of clomid 8/9dpo, I feel full of cold and have hip pain, the same I get before my period because of endometriosis. So I don't think it will happen to me this month!

It is totally rubbish, I hate facebook as well there is always some one showing scan pictures, or babys first tooth etc.

Sorry for the rant! Just really understand where you are coming from! Good luck and try not to let it get to you. good advice that I clearly struggle to take myself!

 

[R&G2007]

R&G i am totally with you! I am 29 and there 8 women I work with about the same age, all the others are in their 50's. I am the only one who has not had at least one baby in the last 2 years (yes some of the fertile mirtles have had 2!!!!). It is so unfair, I feel the same every time one of them announces a pregnancy, shows a scan picture or goes on maternity leave. No one I work with knows I am TTC (over 2 years now), and I don't want to tell them. But fending off all the "ooh it'll be you next!" I can't take it anymore!!!!

To top it all off I am on my first round of clomid 8/9dpo, I feel full of cold and have hip pain, the same I get before my period because of endometriosis. So I don't think it will happen to me this month!

It is totally rubbish, I hate facebook as well there is always some one showing scan pictures, or babys first tooth etc.

Sorry for the rant! Just really understand where you are coming from! Good luck and try not to let it get to you. good advice that I clearly struggle to take myself!

They are all standing round me at teh moment talking about baby stuff, i just want to scream at them to ******* off.

I am not even that far, I have only just been prescribed Metformin, to help me shift some weight and then have to go through all the test again before they give me clomid.

I hope everything goes well for you.

Gem

 

[daisii]

I ended up having to take strategic toilet breaks at such times!!! I so hope that when I finally do get a BFP that I am not the same!!!! but really they tell you everything don't the scan pictures (which I am sure a great when they are yours, but that really all look pretty much the same!!!!). grrrrrrr it makes me so mad!

good luck with them all, you could always start wearing ear plugs and pretend you have an infection and have gone deaf!!!!!

x

 

[R&G2007]

Thank you, you to.
Gem

 

[nina78]

Can I join???

I am sitting at my desk, no able to work. I am feeling sooo down. I have been TTC for 4 years now for our first. People say it gets easier, but it doesn't. We have "unexplained infertility", whatever that means........

We have done 3 iui's (all bfn), 1 IVF (chemical pregnancy - 2 years ago) and just recently in January we got pregnant naturally (it was a miracle), only to miscarrie a week later. I haven't been the same since. Why me???????

Anyhow, I just started taking clomid 50 mg. Figured, I have nothing to loose while waiting to start another IVF in summer.
What is worste, is that 6 of my close friends are pregnant.......6.

Sorry for such a sad message....I just really needed to vent.
Thanks.

 

[R&G2007]

Can I join???

I am sitting at my desk, no able to work. I am feeling sooo down. I have been TTC for 4 years now for our first. People say it gets easier, but it doesn't. We have "unexplained infertility", whatever that means........

We have done 3 iui's (all bfn), 1 IVF (chemical pregnancy - 2 years ago) and just recently in January we got pregnant naturally (it was a miracle), only to miscarrie a week later. I haven't been the same since. Why me???????

Anyhow, I just started taking clomid 50 mg. Figured, I have nothing to loose while waiting to start another IVF in summer.
What is worste, is that 6 of my close friends are pregnant.......6.

Sorry for such a sad message....I just really needed to vent.
Thanks.

Blimey, I hope everything goes well for you on your next lot of ivf