he broke my 3 year olds heart(rant)

[Dream.dream]

stupid dumb redneck dead beat FOB is starting his neglectful behavior all over agian. hes got a new girlfriendagain and has blown off his son twice in the last week to see her. he only has 6 hours a week with him right now and hes ditching him for her. hes done this twice before but my son was to young to understand now he does. When my son got excited today and said daddys coming to see me tommorrow (he knows his dad comes saturdays) i had to tell him no hes not and honestly he was so disapointed it broke my heart too. i wanted to scream at him. and what kind of girl would let him do this, is she seriously that selfish that she cant be without him for 6 hours a week so a little boy doesnt get hurt.

im resisting the urge to message her and his parents to so everyones aware that hes doing this and isnt the perfect dad he pretends to be ugh

 

[teal]

I'm sorry to hear he's done that. 6 hours isn't much and it shows where his priorities are if he can't even find such a short time for his child.

I hope you're ok xx

 

[LTEx]

i'm in the same situation hun but my son is only 2 & half so still doesnt really know whats going off .. His dad sees him 4-6 hours a week, no set day, & sometimes misses a week due to 'working 24 hourr shifts' ha ye right!

Your LO will realise when he's a few years older hun & he'll probs speak up & say he doesn't want to go himself xxxx

 

[Dezireey]

Well...lets just cross our fingers that roll on, many years into the future when your FOB is an old man and needs taking care of or has bad health.....his son goes 'nah, rather be out partying with my mates Dad, you can just live in a care home can't you? meh, I'll see you whenever I am not busy'

Karma will come back and bite him in the ass and I would never worry about any girlfriends, they will find out before long what a nice, selfish man they have on their hands. If a guy can do that to his little kid, then he will display selfish behaviour sooner or later to others too, it's a given.

 

[Dream.dream]

thanks guys. im just frustrated. and his last girlfriend had a kid and he ditch my son for her kid and then was physically and verbally abusive to her in front of her kid!

oh well hes just a dirt bag. and ill just bide my time till my son says he doesnt want to see him. or i have enough to go to court and get all of his rights revoked.