Heard back from him...

[Novbaby08]

For anyone who read my warning letter to my ex...he finally wrote back...a couple times and called. He's coming into town on thursday to see her. I found out that he moved away to try and get clean from drugs and stuff, and he's working on finding a job, apparently he was waiting till he had some money to approach me. But my "warning letter" freaked him out....this is what he sent:


alli you know i want to be in her life i really do ill do anything thats why im trying to get my life on track ..... but plz dont move away like i said ill do anything ....
i know i havent been good at this father thing but i really want to step up and be the father of our baby i really want this to work out between you and me ..

i want to appoligise to you but most importantly harley....
and i wanted to know if you would come talk to me when i visit my mom one of these weekends .... but ill get your number fome annie so i can call you ...

plz dont give up on me ...

 

[lou_w34]

For anyone who read my warning letter to my ex...he finally wrote back...a couple times and called. He's coming into town on thursday to see her. I found out that he moved away to try and get clean from drugs and stuff, and he's working on finding a job, apparently he was waiting till he had some money to approach me. But my "warning letter" freaked him out....this is what he sent:


alli you know i want to be in her life i really do ill do anything thats why im trying to get my life on track ..... but plz dont move away like i said ill do anything ....
i know i havent been good at this father thing but i really want to step up and be the father of our baby i really want this to work out between you and me ..

i want to appoligise to you but most importantly harley....
and i wanted to know if you would come talk to me when i visit my mom one of these weekends .... but ill get your number fome annie so i can call you ...

plz dont give up on me ...

Its a start, but why didnt he just tell you that he was moving to get clean from drugs? After all thats a lot better than just simply disappearing. Im sure you would have understood his reasons why, and he still could have called.

However he sounds like he's being genuine, just made some stupid decisions.

I think whatever you decide will be great, so try not too worry about it too much

 

[purpledahlia]

hmmm.. well if he makes the effort from now then ok.. but he could of still called you or emailed you or explained his plan to you all those months ago..

 

[woadie]

I know us single dumped-ons are all cynical old witches with the men now... but the 'please don't give up on me' bit was sweet...

Good luck for Thursday, I hope it all works out well and you have a really positive day, you, Harley, and FOB... I'll be keeping fingers crossed, let us know how it goes

 

[bloodbinds]

Hmmm, just be careful hun! Men can be full of all the right words and then the next day they decide getting drunk/stoned is so much more fun than being a dad...

Sorry, i really am one of the bitter single mums, lol.

But i really and truly do hope it works out for you xx

 

[edinsam]

hun I cant help agree with Blood above.

Im sorry but if my ex sent me that it would be a little too late. I know people change etc etc but where the hell has he been all this time - a wee update from him wouldnt have gone a miss I think!

 

[woadie]

Men can be full of all the right words and then the next day they decide getting drunk/stoned is so much more fun than being a dad...

LOL! Amen to that! Or... full of no words at all....

 

[Novbaby08]

Well I told him he can come over Thursday, I won't hold my breath. Wouldn't want to suffocate if he doesn't follow through. He says he still has feelings for me and wants to work things out...but I'm not sure. Honestly i'm madly in love with him, have been since I met him a couple years ago. But I'm strong enough to push him away if he is just bullshitting me

 

[purpledahlia]

Make sure you do tho. dont fall into a trap thats what he wants. be carefull.