Hearing about BFPs is just getting worse

[Bug222]

Next week is the due date of my first Angel, December will be the second. I'm still not pregnant again and feel like no matter how hard we try and how hard I try to increase my chances through supplements/vitamins etc nothing is working.

In the last week there have been 6 pregnancy announcements ... I don't know how many more I can deal with. Each one leaves me curled in a ball sobbing. I don't know what to do anymore.

 

[Hula1]

So sorry bug. I totally understand where you are coming from on all counts. I lost mine in april, due date is nov 12th and it just re intensifies all those orginal emotions especially that despite all the efforts with diet, supplements and acupuncture i too am not pregnant. Every drop off at nursery means running the gauntlet of bumps and new babies. It s just not fair that some people fall pregnant with no effort while for others it s like climbing everest. We just have to hang on to hope and believe that our rainbow will come when the time is right. It took us 18mns to conceive our first and once he was here it made all that effort worthwhile and had it not taken that long and happened a differnt month then it wouldn t be him sharing my life and bringing me so much joy. So looking back i wouldn t have changed a thing and i guess that if you can look forward in the same way then it might help ease the pain and disappointment each month until finally you get the bfp and baby to take home that you deserve. Big hugs.

 

[LoraLoo]

They are totally normal feelings hope it happens soon for you x

 

[Andypanda6570]

Definitely normal, I am so sorry.. I think back to the days after I lost Ava and it was unbearable I never went out, but when I did , cause I had to go to the store, I was in the same isle with a very pregnant woman I bursted into tears and ran out and didn't go out again for 3 months.. It takes time, but it just hurts so much.. XOXOXOXOXOOX

 

[Bug222]

Thank you for taking the time to reply xxx it means a lot

 

[pink_phoenix]

Oh bug im so sorry. I do know the feeling. I have to would have been due dates coming up. End of nov and 20th of dec. i should still be preg now with the nov date as i only lost my little bean in may this year. On my birthday of all days. I too just seem to get stuck every where thats full of preg women. Also a month after my mc my best friend announced she was expecting. I knew she was trying but didnt really expect it to be so soon as it takes me around a year to concieve.

Shes kept me updated every step of the way as its been quite a difficult time for her and a few weeks ago she said shes having her 1st girl. I detest my self for being jelous but i know if any one deserves it she does. Her little boy has a heart condition and spends alot of time in the hospital xx

Just keep your chin up and try and stay positive. I know its hard. Im always on the other end of a message if you want to talk or even rant in private to get things off ur chest. I know that one defo helps me.


All the best xxxxx

 

[babytots]

Big hugs hun hearing annoucements is so hard when you are so desperate to ttc your rainbow baby. It's like a stab in the heart each time as a reminder of what you should of had. I know I struggle with hearing any sort of pregnancy news at the moment and it seems everyone is pregnant or just had a baby. We were trying for 16 month before I got my bfp and to have that taken away after trying for long was so cruel and now it's torture having to wait from cycle to cycle to see of i get that bfp.

I feel your pain hun your not alone x