Heartbeat slowed right down :(

[Lauren-x]

I went for another scan after abortion clinic as I needed to go to cancel my appointment but let them do a stomach scan and they said they thought I had a brighten Ovum (I think I spelt it wrong) so was told to go see if it was or if it was because they couldn't see much on the small scan.

I then went to the EPU for another scan and baby had grown but heartbeat was slow, so I have another appointment in a week for another scan. I am so scared and worried for my little bean because I do want it more than anything.

My Mum said she didn't think something was right as I have been having back pains recently. And now she says I should abort because there is a big chance my baby won't be ok if I get to full term.

Please can somebody tell me the chances that my baby will get through the next couple of months and if possibly the slow heartbeat at this point has effected it in any way.

I feel so upset right now and I just really want bean to be ok, even though I do realise that this is unlikely. It's hard to believe from Monday with such a fast heartbeat to a slow one.

 

[leeanne]

OMG, I am sorry to hear about your news. I don't know anything about blighted ovums but my thoughts are with you that all will be alright!

Sending a hug

 

[Vickie]

I'm sorry I really don't have any advice for you. I don't think you have a blighted ovum though as that is where conception occurred and the fertilised egg implanted in your womb but the baby did not develop. Honestly I would speak to the doctors about the slow heartbeat before making a decision and find out what they recommend.

 

[Christina]

I really do not have any advice for you either hun. I am feeling for you though as I had a scare about a month ago. It seems as though time slows down when you are worried. I hope your little bean is o.k..

 

[Serene123]

A slow heartbeat is still a heartbeat. Hopefully your bean will stick! xx

 

[Gabi]

What a tough one.



That's about all I can do to try make you feel better.

A slow heartbeat is a heartbeat nonetheless and without positive thinking and hope there really is no hope. So take care of yourself. And try to stay positive. Hopefully it'll all be fine in the end.

Remember as evil as it sounds if there is something wrong mother nature will step in. If the baby makes it then I believe everything is 100%

Wishing you all the best of luck!!!!

 

[Mervs Mum]

I agree with Gabi - let nature take charge for the moment.

 

[jo27]

Wait for the scans and meidcal opinion hun you never know things could turn out all right i hope they do x

 

[Lauren-x]

The Nurse gave me little hope as she said 'The heartbeat is slower than it should be so you'll need another appointment in the next 10-14 days'. Maybe she didn't want to worry me, but hopefully all is well . And if it isn't then it happened for a reason and mother nature did what was ment to happen but I'll just have to wait and see .

 

[Mervs Mum]

Keep us posted Lauren x Good luck hun

 

[Lauz_1601]

sorry to be so blunt hun but does your mum not want you to have this baby ? Backache is totally normal, I had it wth my fist pregnancy and suffering with it now, it doesnt mean that something is wrong! Please please listen to your heart and hang in there becuase there is a very good chance that everything will be absolutley fine. From what I've read very early scans when the bean is so small they can be unaccurate sometimes as its so hard to tell with them being so small.

keep your chin up and be positive for your little one, keep us updated xxxx

 

[Charliepops]

Sorry to hear you´re going through a hard time at the moment babe, hope little heartbeat picks up and stays strong. All the best

 

[poppy]

Lauren, I really hope things work out for you. You should definately speak to your doctor before making any decisions and see how things go at the next ultrasound.

 

[Lauren-x]

The baby didn't survive , when I had my scan yesterday the Nurse said it hadn't grown and the heart wasn't beating anymore. I feel really sad about it but it didn't look very good from the last scan as she said it was really slow when I went yesterday.

I told my ex and he just said 'Oh Right' and he doesn't even care or has contacted me since which you wouldn't expect from a 3 year relationship but he's just a..

I have to go back to the Infirmary on Wednesday at 2.00pm for my first tablet then on Friday at 8.00am for the second and I'll be staying in all day because they said it won't be pleasant . They asked me did I want tablets or naturally but I choose the tablets because I don't want it to take a while to happen. It's hard because I still feel really sick, and I was hoping that it was a good sign but it turned out not to be.

But overall I'm feeling ok and I do hope that I will get a healthy baby one day, it's just this time it wasn't ment to be. And I hope all of you have beautiful healthy full term babies and thank you very much for helping me with all my early pregnancy worries.

 

[Rumpskin]

Oh Lauren, I am so sorry for your very sad news.

I will be thinking of you this week.

Keep strong xxx

 

[Teel]

Lauren

I am very very sorry to hear of the news

big big hugs to you

Your ex couldve been more supportive, thats quite harsh of him and very insensitive of him, but i guess he was an ex for a reason and with that reaction, your better off without him!

I cant imagine how devastating this is to you, but everyone here will help support you and get through this.

take care

xx

 

[hollie86]

Hi Lauren,
Im really sorry to hear you have had such a rough time. Im sure you will have a healthy pregnancy next time. As for your ex what a w***er!!!!!
Men can be so insensitive sometimes perhaps its a good thing that your wee rid of him.
Will be thinkin of you.
Take care
xxxx

 

[xclairex]

lauren im so sorry to hear your very sad news but u always have us here if u need chearing up things will get better hun! as for u ex he does not deserve u and u are to good for him xx

 

[Mervs Mum]

Oh Lauren, I'm so sorry. I dont really know what else to say. x

 

[Samantha675]

I am so sorry Lauren.