Heartbroken and TTC

[sarahbug31]

We just had a huge round of tests done (in the past month).. we first learned that I am not ovulating. My doctor was planning to put me on Clomid after my husbands SA - which was last week. Just received a call with the results from his SA which showed he's not producing either.

I was already heartbroken, but this is just the icing on the cake. So many steps backwards before we are moving forward. Our next move is to see a Urologist and go from there. With that said, I know that everything happens for a reason and maybe it is just not meant to be. I just can't help but be sad.

 

[froggyfrog]

I can say that I completely understand. Our journey was the opposite way. We found out that dh has a very low count, nothing he did treatment wise worked. Then we found out that I was ovulating but very weakly. We have been through a lot ttc, still no BFP for us, but we are still hopeful. I did 7 cycles on letrozole, and my cd 21 came out awesome. After med and procedures for dh didn't help, he started on a supplement that increased his count. So there is always hope! Please don't let this steal your joy! There were many times that I felt like we would move forward and then something else happened, but I just learned to take it one day at a time. Tackle one issue, the move on to the next issue! Hang in there! GL!

 

[sarahbug31]

I can say that I completely understand. Our journey was the opposite way. We found out that dh has a very low count, nothing he did treatment wise worked. Then we found out that I was ovulating but very weakly. We have been through a lot ttc, still no BFP for us, but we are still hopeful. I did 7 cycles on letrozole, and my cd 21 came out awesome. After med and procedures for dh didn't help, he started on a supplement that increased his count. So there is always hope! Please don't let this steal your joy! There were many times that I felt like we would move forward and then something else happened, but I just learned to take it one day at a time. Tackle one issue, the move on to the next issue! Hang in there! GL!

Thank you so much.. It's so discouraging and of course frustrating. It sounds like you have been through a lot.. I cross my fingers for us both.