heartbroken

[trinaestella]

i feel since this pregnancy i've loved my OH more than ever, but i'm not getting what i need from him and i've breaken it so many times and as a fool taken him back so many times

i really don't know what else to do but just go alone with this, i dont want to as i am so madly in love with him. i wanted him and to spend my life with him the first day i saw him, but this is hard for me i cant be with him if im not getting back what i give.

can anyone give me tips on how to break up with him, and instead of just telling him 'we're not together anymore', i want to show him physically it's over for good and so i can build myself up emotionally and physically to do it without him.


it's so hard, i'm feeling so angry and heartbroken like he's cheated on me or something, when it's not even that i just don't feel like he's being the FOB i want him to be which is supportive and caring

 

[trinaestella]

ok. i finally broke up with him. now i have to stick to it and be strong

 

[mommy2baby2]

Good luck! Be strong and if it truly is meant to be, it'll happen the right way and you will know. I don't know the extent of your relationship, ages, or how his reaction to the breakup was. I hope he sticks around for the pregnancy and for the baby. But just stay strong, don't have sex with him. Learn to be friends and maybe it'll develop into more again someday!

Good luck!

 

[jessrabbit]

Good luck, remember we are all here if you need us. Stay strong xx

 

[sambucababy]

Good luck hun, its not easy, look after yourself x

 

[Agiboma]

best of luck

 

[Laura2919]

As Mommy said if its meant to be it will be. Good luck, it takes a certain strength not to run back to what you know. I have always said it takes more than love to build a relationship, trust and security too!

 

[Mally01]

I broke up with my FOB a week ago as he was also very unsupportive and selfish about the baby. I have weak days and even today I miss him so badly and wish I was with him again. He texted me yesterday and I almost caved in. You have to be strong. Everytime you feel weak, remind yourself why you needed to break up and why you need to be emotionally strong right now. I feel better at the moment as the relationship is not causing me stress anymore which means less stress for my unborn baby. Maybe things will be different with him when the baby is born and maybe they just won't. Just take good care of yourself. Hugs xx

 

[NicolleM.T.B.]

Honestly sweety be strong, its best for you and your little girl. even if you can't do it you, do it for her. do you want your daughter growing up and watching the way he treats you? I was in the exact same position but my daughter was 1 week old, when she's in your arms things will be different honestly. Even if you don't have the strength now you will when she's here, but try to keep your pregnancy stress free as she'll pick up on all your feeling already. Good luck and stay strong x

 

[dustbunny]

You've been so strong so far and keep strong! If you felt it was the right thing to do then stick to it and when you have your down moments about it remind yourself why you broke up with him. If you ever want to rant then there are plenty of women here to listen!!