Hello from Newbie!

[Rtee]

Hey you lovely ladies,

I am 29 and have been married for 3 years, started ttc in January so about 4-5 months.

I have been on other forums and they seem to be filled with people trying for their 2nd, 3rd, 4th so it was really nice to find one just for us first timers!

Have a good feeling this month, dtd on time and af is due in a week, getting cramps, creamy cm (sorry tmi) and feeling really thirsty - are these good signs?

Thanks xxx

 

[emz1200]

Hiya, i'm 29 aswell & we're on month 4 of trying, didn't realise how hard it is until i started reading up on everything. Not sure about the signs though as i'm new to this but fingers crossed for you.

 

[Rtee]

Hiya, i'm 29 aswell & we're on month 4 of trying, didn't realise how hard it is until i started reading up on everything. Not sure about the signs though as i'm new to this but fingers crossed for you.

Hi Emz1200,

Its so nice to have people to talk to in the same boat! And Swindon is not far either!

I found the first month really hard as stupidly expected it to happen straight away, then I am sure I fell Pregnant on the 2nd month as my body was doing weird things and messed up my cycle but finally worked it all back out now. But it does get me down at the end of the month. I thought it would just be a case of dtd and that would be it but its hard work working out all your dates etc.

When is your AF mine is next Friday? Fingers crossed it doesn come though!!

 

[Hena]

Hi ladies! I'm also 29 and started ttc in January. I'm getting seriously impatient, but feeling very hopeful this month will finally be it. AF is due around the 22nd and I'm waiting for symptoms. Rtee, I also thought we'd conceive on the first go. When I think of all the stress I used to have when I took the pill an hour or two late....*sigh*
Baby dust to you!

 

[Popcorn]

Hello!

Also 29, first month TCC! I hope it happens soon for us all!

 

[booflebump]

Hello and welcome to TTC :wave:

 

[Rtee]

Hi ladies! I'm also 29 and started ttc in January. I'm getting seriously impatient, but feeling very hopeful this month will finally be it. AF is due around the 22nd and I'm waiting for symptoms. Rtee, I also thought we'd conceive on the first go. When I think of all the stress I used to have when I took the pill an hour or two late....*sigh*
Baby dust to you!

I know what you mean, I used to worry if I missed a pill etc but I shouldn't have worried. Been off the pill for a year and half now (came off a year prior to TTC just to get my cycle back on track) so it should all be out of my system.

It is hard work this TTC business but good fun trying I guess, its just the waiting at the end of the month I hate.

Good luck to all my fellow 29 year olds! Could be our month xxx

 

[Hena]

Hey fellow 29 y/o first-timers, how's everyone doing? I'm almost at the end on my 2ww, testing on Saturday or Sunday if no AF. I have a good feeling, but I've had a "good feeling" since January so who knows
I'm just curious, are you hoping for several children? I'm feeling the pressure now because DH and I really want three kids, so the sooner we start the better!
Baby dust to all of you! Hope this is our month!!!

 

[Popcorn]

Yes! I feel the pressure! we want 3 or 4 and I was waiting for OH to be ready forever! Now he is and I'm hoping it happens soon! (I would have to pregnant pretty much every 2 years to get to #4!)

Good luck us all!!

 

[FrenchyMummy]

Hello ladies! I am 31 and trying for number 1 too, I am not charting or anything, but using ovulation sticks to try to find the window of baby opportunity.. So far we haven't found it, but who knows, maybe next time?!

 

[Lux]

Hi everyone!

I'm 23, this is my first month of trying. I think we may have missed our window of opportunity of sorts.

Good luck to everyone though! Hope to see some BFP's soon!!

 

[LilLeafyLea]

Hi girlies, I have to say this is the first time I have ever wished I was older than I was lol! I want to be in the 29ers club!! I'll be 27 on Tuesday, I'm smack bang in my O days so I'm humping like sex is going out of fashion (Just tried to get some now before OH went to bed, I've been flatly rejected and told I'm wearing him out - man!) I should be due on 8th June - argh! That may as well be a decade away!

Yep, definitely want more than one chlld, I'd love three but will probably settle at two! I'm hoping to just roll continuously after childbirth lol! That's your most fertile period apparently. Now whether I have this same view after experiencing childbirth is another kettle of fish altogether!!

OMG - shockhorror (and sorry to just switch subject) but does anyone watch misbehaving mums to be on three now(UK TV)? Craziness I tell you, craziness!

Good luck ladies! xxx

 

[LilLeafyLea]

Oo, sorry Rtee, forgot to say hi and welcome lol! I'm glad I found this site too and I am probably on it way too much! Those signs are definitely good! I'm keeping it all xd for you and let us know how you get on! xxx

 

[Hena]

LOL I love your post LilLeafyLea! My hubby also had a "do you think the morning would be okay?" moment this cycle. I was a determined woman!
We just had a conversation last night about how I would probably never have to go bc again (fine by me!) we don't want to lose any time, I really don't want to be pushing 40 and ttc again, it's stressful enough with 30 staring me down It's interesting to hear that's a fertile time...hmmm.....might be easier on the 2nd go.

I've heard of Misbehaving Mums, I wonder if I can find it online...........I have my distracting activity for tonight!

 

[Hena]

Oh, and today's Tuesday, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

 

[LilLeafyLea]

Thank you Hena , I had a lovely day and am the stage where I now have to have a good think when someone asks me my age! 27 doesn't feel right! Ah well! I am completely with you on the whole '30' thing I wanted to have a few children by that point but at the mo I'll be delighted with the one!

Mornings are the best fertile time for men I've read somewhere, but you read sooo much TTC info and some of it seems to conflict in my opinion so who knows! I'd just say if you have a spare minute (and that is being wildly optimistic lol!!) go fot it! Wishing you luck xx

 

[Achelois]

Hey! Welcome to TTC

I am 31 and going for #1 too! I had a nightmare getting my IUD removed (coil) and now that its out finally, after 3!!! appointments - I am ready to go although I am due AF next week - so BD middle of next month and with any luck end of June rejoicing! Not doing anything special - not even legs in the air - just going to go with the flow - literally!

baby dust to you all

A x