Help! i know I'm paranoid :(

[mommy2be2011x]

Hello Everyone! Today i'm being a little paranoid! I am 10 weeks and 6 days pregnant almost 11 weeks yay but I had a miscarriage about a year and some months ago so I am extra paranoid this time around, I already passed my marker time which was 8 weeks but even thought that gives me a lil confidence other things worry me any little pain i feel i get scared i keep checking for blood and get scared all the time it's stressing me out I have no Idea how to take it easy! Specially cause i just started feeling like a pulling sensation on my hip sides its not persistant and it goes away when i lay down or after a few seconds however anything sends me into panic mode I don't want to hurt my lil one thats coming but I am soscared I could not bare another loss I would literally die What to do ?

 

[Beadette]

Hi Hun, you are in good company here. We are all nervous wrecks with these pregnancies and can all understand where you are coming from. I don't think anyone can offer you any advice as we are the same but we can all support each other through the hard times. X

 

[ettegirb21]

I'm the same way. I have made it past the point of my previous m/c's, but am still scared to pieces. I wish I could give you some advice, but I feel the same way. You're not alone.

 

[mommy2be2011x]

Thanks It truly does make me feel better to know I have you guys I hate being like so paranoid all the time but can't help it! I'm a bit hopeful ,hoping for the best Hope my lo sticks this time around

 

[mislaww]

Aww hon.

We can relate. Repeating good advice others have given me here - one day at a time.

As for the pain, either it's completely unrelated or possibly round ligament pain. Other than your own discomfort (sorry!) doesn't sound like something to worry about.

Making it to 10 weeks, your chance of mc is pretty low! Congrats! Have you been able to see your bean yet?

 

[hb1]

It isn't just your own experience of mc that you are exposed to when you go thru this - you become painfully aware of what can go wrong.

My pg friends who have not mc prev haven't heard of half the stuff I now know - I won't burst their bubble - but I still worry and am well past the point at which I mc.

Stay hopeful tho and try to enjoy it when you can

hx

 

[mislaww]

It isn't just your own experience of mc that you are exposed to when you go thru this - you become painfully aware of what can go wrong.

My pg friends who have not mc prev haven't heard of half the stuff I now know - I won't burst their bubble - but I still worry and am well past the point at which I mc.

Stay hopeful tho and try to enjoy it when you can

hx

Your're so right hb - my preggo friends and family are so blissfully ignorant of all sorts of risks and complications! I'm so jealous of them!

 

[mommy2be2011x]

LOL I wish I could Ignore all risks as well it would make it so much easier Nope I haven't got to see my LO yet that's why I am sooooo worried I will get to see baby on the 29th when I will be almost 13 weeks and that will be my first scan I hope I can hear the heartbeat to know my baby is ok ! Thanks for all your kind words ladies

 

[mislaww]

Sorry you have to wait so long. Hopefully the 29th will be here in a flash for you. Remember that chances are very good at this point that your baby is just fine and happy! Good luck.

 

[mommy2be2011x]

Sorry you have to wait so long. Hopefully the 29th will be here in a flash for you. Remember that chances are very good at this point that your baby is just fine and happy! Good luck.

Thanks I will keep that in mind I"m feeling very hopeful right now