HELP! Living with my Dad misery emotional abuse UPDATE...

[mummygiraffe]

Ok so I made it through another day, but I was out for most of it and it's been downhill since.

my DD cannot make a normal 3 yr old sound without getting told off(his f****ing dog can bark all day though!

Anyway have advice on how to cope with an emotional abuser for 6 weeks?

 

[gemabee]

awww sounds horrible hun!
is it a permanant situation or can u find somewhere else to live?xx

 

[Pixxie]

I dont have any advice but didnt want to read and run xx

 

[Birdling]

Poor you - I take it that you have to live there? I'd be getting out now, if you can.

 

[cdj1]

Hi there
Sorry to hear it hasn't got any better...is there really no family or friends you can turn to? You cant live there, you'll go mad. How tricky would it be for you and your hubby to trade places of living? I know he has work to think about it but the extra drive just might save your sanity? xxx

 

[mummygiraffe]

I have 6 weeks to live there until i'm back with hubby. So it will end it's just a matter of making it out alive an sane and well.

Spoke to my mum earlier as she knows whats its like. I did some research and I'm 99.9% sure he has Narcissistic personality disorder-would explain alot-apparently theres no cure! not that he'd ever admit it

 

[ItsMagic]

I've been living with my father and my younger brother, and my brother I swear is a sociopath. I've been living here for about 2 months now, trying to find an apartment with OH, but before I moved in he was all happy and saying how much he's glad to have me back and the day I moved in he completely changed. He said he'd help with housework, hasn't done crap, has treated me like crap. He treats everyone like crap, and takes advantage of my dad and I hate watching it and everytime I say something he tells me to move out, which really hurts because me and OH have been looking for months and cannot find a place which allows pets, and we are awaiting to hear back on an application to a place, and I'm just devastated because I need a home before my baby is born, so he has a nursery and all. But my brother told me he hopes my baby dies, and I have to live in the same house as him. The way I cope is I just completely ignore and avoid him. If it is possible, I would find another place to live, I have nowhere else to go. If I had another place to go I would. Just stay strong, time will fly. If you can't go anywhere, just remember time will fly and you will be out of there and will not have to deal with him anymore.