help please :) x

[itsmelou1984]

Im due AF visiting tomorrow...now normally my breasts hurt like crazy when she's coming..but this month there's nothing. im new here also and not sure about all these temperatures and how you know when ov is? its sooo confusing! i already have one daughter with my ex but me and my fiance want a child together, it seems to mean a lot to him... so any help ill be grateful for x

 

[rachelle1975]

Hey Lou

Are you temping now?

If you sign up to fertility friend on the web you can plot your temps each day and chart ovulation kits too - i find the more things you plot the more chance of solid cross hairs on your chart which will show when you ovulated.

Have you got a thermometer? x x

 

[Jkelmum]

I used ovulation sticks there pretty cheap off ebay I only used 7 and now I am pregnant I have loads left lol

 

[itsmelou1984]

yeah i got a thermometer, but i been about 36.6-37.0 for about a week now, and my normal is between 35.7 and 36.3 so godknows whats happening, cool thanks i will have a look at FF and see whats what x

 

[rachelle1975]

Ooh that is good!

Mine tends to drop to about 36.10 after leaves the building - it goes up to about 36.40 and then drops for ovulation and then i tend to get 36.50-36.80 post ovulation - it drops by about 0.5 the morning comes though.

All the books say 16 high temps above the coverline are good!

Fingers crossed for you

 

[itsmelou1984]

just feeling really bloated today...actually goin to think the will visit soon...its a bummer but theres always next month!!

wow, just spent ages trying to figure out FF, i think i'm doing it right!! just looking at other peoples temps and mine seems to be a tad too high...so hoping im not going to get poorly!! , so whats happening with you at the mo? what steps your next one?

 

[rachelle1975]

Don't worry hun - mine always seemed different to others but yours are very similar to mine so i'm sure you are doing good! have you got a link to your chart set up?

Bloated is also a good sign (or bad if you have eaten too much pizza like me ) They also say some people think they are getting coldy/fluey when that can be a symptom! If you haven't found this other site, there is one called two week wait which is fab to obsess over!!!

We are waiting for our first appt at the IVF Clinic but in the meantime - legs in the air and go go! We only need to one! Might start painting targets on my eggs just to help

 

[Sparklebaby]

cant really help hun as not temping or using opk but didnt wanna read and run. Welcome to BnB. Hope you have a happy stay here. the girls are all lovely

 

[itsmelou1984]

everyone does seem so nice which is helpful!! just waiting for the electric man to come!! grrrrr i dont want to wait in all day!!

aw well...speaking of fluish there was just one night (thurs) just gone and i felt really awful before i went to bed, and ive gone off where as the day before the comes its the opposite...strange, but im almost positive shes on her way as the moods have started to swing!

aw my cousin had ivf, i couldnt tell her when i got PG as i wasnt trying and conceived, luckily she was happy for me and she had her daughter 8mth after i gave birth to caitlin so in the end we both were happy! sorry, i do go on a bit!!!

 

[itsmelou1984]

aww i just took my temp and tonight it is 37.4! the highest its been ever!! godknows whats going on...still due the tomorrow...so got my fingers and toes crossed girlies x x

 

[itsmelou1984]

well the is due today...getting some mild twinges in my abdomen...didnt really have much to eat yesterday and thats unusual for me, i love my food!! OH keeps asking if i want breakfast and i dont want none, bb's are still fine, no pain like normally before AF which is also strange, moods have got better and my temps gone back down to 37.0 (after lastnights episode)

 

[rachelle1975]

Hey Lou

Wow your temp IS looking good - i bet you can't wait to
When do you think you will do it?
My temp was the same as yesterday, still 36.63 but i feel like i have a cold coming on. If it weren't for the IVF then i would be doing some serious symptom watching!!!

 

[itsmelou1984]

forgot to mention i tested with a cheapie today with FMU and it was a so dunno what to think now

 

[Sparklebaby]

hey....any changes babes??xx

 

[itsmelou1984]

well people are going to think im nuts...i took a test this morning... ( not FMU) clearblue and i swear i saw a v.v faint line.... but i took it with me to work to keep checking, but the line had vanished!! now i know you got to disregard them after 10 mins...but why x its confused the he*l outta me!! x x

 

[bebe]

If you look on peeonastick.com, clearblue are renowned for disappearing positives so I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

 

[Sparklebaby]

awwww....sounds promising though? do a digi in a few days babes. ur only just late for AF so maybe there is not quite enough hormone thingy what ever u call it gr8 with words me lol......u know what I mean. if u think u could be then test in a few days with a digi. keep us informed

 

[itsmelou1984]

i know i really want to but ive got this horrible feeling that it'l turn out and my OH will think i had my line eyes on x x