Help!

[babydue2011]

i really can not wait for my LO to be here so i can really set him straight. He thinks he has done nothing wrong. He thinks because he gave me the choice to have an abortion or not and i didnt, i should live with that. He doesnt get it im not asking him to be apart of the babys life but to be lied to and all is very hard and unfair to me! i am trying to just be strong. My mum is ready to let everybody know too. but again without baby here he will only deny and cause more trouble for me. so once LO is here, his features are so strong, there will be NO DENYING it! gosh i really cant wait haha.

he will think he has got off scott free and will be able to get away with all the lies but at this point... no way!!

thanks ladies for all the support.. it helps to talk about it.

 

[jessrabbit]

Keep strong, think you are right to play the long game. Karma come and will bite his arse for you. Come and vent on here whenever you need to xx

 

[babydue2011]

so i sent a lil message to him ... I said " congrats on your baby boy, i am sure you are so happy and will be a great dad. just remember Karma does come back around. Hope you are ready to handle it when the truth finally comes out "

(mind you very sarcastic while writing this haha....

His reply "leave me alone you f****ing psycho ... i hate you" ....

this just made my anger grow.. but as i read it i just smiled and thought to myself only a month and few weeks hehehehe then my master plan will take effect.

 

[Mally01]

He is shit scared ha! ha! that's why he called you psycho. He is trying to scare you into not saying anything but damage is done, so he has made his bed / can't change the past / has to face the future whether he likes it or not. You have all the aces here sweetie. He can swear at you and threaten you as much as he damn well likes but you can get a DNA done if needed and he will be exposed for the dirty rat that he is. He is getting bad karma now in his life as you are going to spoil what he perceives as his future happiness and he has that coming. He had many chances to redeem himself with you and at the very least support you but he didn't. You MUST tell us when you expose him and of course, most importantly, tell us the happy news of baby being born

 

[babydue2011]

haha oh yes ma'ma... i am not scared and it will be exposed very soon. its funny how i really am no longer sad about being without him. ofcourse yall will get to hear when everything is finally told and when baby is born!! i almost messaged the gf today and wanted to say something but stopped myself and just said to wait for the baby... a picture is more then a thousand words! we shall see.. i have deleted now everything to him. i really feel stronger and better.

 

[jessrabbit]

xx

 

[babydue2011]

so i am really trying to be strong. just thinking of the outcome and what future holds... but just need a vent....

All these girls i went to highschool with are pregnant (just found about 10, im sure there is more) ... they all seem to be so happy and have supportive bd or boyfriend. i really dont want my ex back but gosh it is so hard to see. Then to know he is sticking beside his new gf... gahhh just need a good cry maybe but im at work haha. these are the thoughts that make me weak and break down.

 

[jessrabbit]

I know how you feel, I'm surrounding by happily pregnant couples everywhere I go, even my married sister is pregnant again. Its not their fault but they have no concept of how upsetting it can be for us singletons. You are not alone, have a good cry when you get home, always makes me feel better x

 

[babydue2011]

oh my gooooodness.. that really must be extra hard. yea one of them added me on fb and was like "are you and babydaddy gonna get married" ... ummm girl there is no where on my page that looks like i am in a relationship first of all... second no pics of guy... just like thanks for the slap in the face haha.