here we go

[faye38]

cant belive that i lossing hope with ever gettting that every time it comes around to ovulation i start to feel down and depressed and start thinking whats the point when he has a low sperm count i really feel like not trying untill we have ivf anyone else feel like this

 

[gymfiend]

Ah, what I'd give to ovulate & to know it was happening
Chin up hunny, gotta be in it to win it after all. Have you tried anything for the low sperm count? I was reading somewhere today [I swear, all I ever read it info on TTC...gone are the days of reading normal things, like magazines..!!] that zinc is helpful?xx

 

[HAYS]

Hey hun,

Yeh I feel the same chick, even tho we both have nothing wrong with us I should be grateful, but its so frustrating that its not happening and for no bloody reason atall, 15months ttc has really done me in emotionally
xx

 

[Redfraggle]

Aw, please don't give up. He might have a low sperm count but at the end of the day you only need one ickle tiny swimmer!! You've gotta have hope and just keep trying. Miracles can happen.

 

[vineyard]

Yes, I feel that way. This month was our last month of trying naturally before our IVF. I was kinda feeling like there was no point. My DH has decrease motility but plenty of them. They just can't swim well enough to make the journey. : (

 

[rachelle1975]

Totally feel like it hun.

We already know that his count is crap and even though he is doing a final SA this coming week, if it had improved greatly i would be pregnant by now.

So it's all boiling down to IVF.... so i've stopped doing the OPKs and the temping and i'm just gonna have fun sex with my husband like when we first got together. Since in all likelihood it will take IVF to fall pregnant we might as well have fun now - cos sure enough i'll be pregnant this time next year and won't want any fun!

Chin up chick xx

 

[CurlySue]

I only wish I ovulated. Would be at it like a little bunny because the thought of denying myself the chance would be too much.

Lately all I can do is choose a time frame that I think MIGHT be ovulation time and bunnyshag then. The most frustrating thing is that I then find out I didnt ovulate at all and have wasted my time and energy and hope.

We have to have hope, though. If you don't try you won't have any hope or chance at all.

 

[FJL]

I have felt like this for ages!

We haven't had intentional BMS for about a year...just regular random sex...though I must say the last 6 months poor DH has gotten hardly anything LOL

 

[MissAma]

Ditto FJL - and Happy New Year ladies- if our sex life around O time over the past year and a half would be a graph it would be sharp raise -my the BD marathons....- and then a sharp drop when we had the first IVF then another raise when we thought things changed and maybe he can produce any sperm and then a complete drop and a dead line for a while when Beckic and I decided to leave it to IVF. Our sex life not around O days seems to have went through the reverse though LOL

All things considered though, Fay, I think you'll agree CurlySue has a point and letting the chance go by is not the easiest thing....

/Signed *decided to BD tonight*