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allforthegirl

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So I guess I may not be out of the woods for having a safe pg!

It is kind of a long story but it has to start from the begnning for you all to understand.

With my second birth I had a fluke thing happen to me, where the blood from the baby came back up into my blood and caused high antibodies to some of my baby's proteins. So when it came time for all the blood tests with #3 they found a very elevated level of this anti-kel which is very very very dangerous if the baby has that protein. The Dr up in the NWT had no clue what this was but new it was most likely going to end up badly, and they told me the whole time. Well it turned out that baby had that protein and the Dr freaked out even more. I was transferred to a Dr in the home town from where I lived, and he gave me amazing care. He was not all freaked out about it and new exactly what it was and how to deal with it. Wow did that put my mind to ease.

So he monitored me very closely, and at one point his levels started to drop. So we had to travel to another province so that the baby may have a intro uterine blood transfusion. My little guy had two of them and wasn't expected to pull through just because he was delivered. There was a high risk that he would still need transfusions after birth. I was blessed with a beautiful baby boy that didn't need anything extra. He was a true miracle.

So then when I found out that I was PG with #4 we knew that there may be an issue. We went through all the testing and he came out clean, form the scary life threatening antibodies. And we delivered a healthy baby with out any issues.

Now my levels are very elevated, which means that the three proteins that DH has (not as life threatening but still very well could pose a problem due to my high levels) still could cause baby to become anemic and pass. So it was explained that the odds are high, because baby has a 50% chance of getting each. So 50% chance to have s, 50% chance of e, and 50% chance of getting k. So the chance of getting at least one of them is very high!! *sigh*

The next step is for me to be reffered to a maternal specialist so I can be monitored very closely. There are two tests that they may try, a very new blood test that is still in the testing phase, or an amnio to find out what proteins baby will have.

So I get to sit on the edge of my chair possibly my whole PG wondering if baby will make it tomorrow. I envy all of you that once you hit 12 weeks your risk is sooooo very low.

On a good note I did get to see baby again today. He whipped out a portable hand held u/s machine. Baby looked so cute! That part was awesome. sorry no photo from that little thing.
 
I am sorry you're going through this, allforthegirl. I've never been there, but that just sounds so stressful!

Hoping and praying for the best for your LO.
 
Thank you my dear. I just have to go one step at a time. Hopefully I will see the maternal specialist sooner than later
 
Aftg...:( I am so sorry your having to go through all of this....I am praying hard for you and bump :hugs:
I wish the very best for you ok...my thoughts are with you.

:) :) :) xxx
 
Hey all for the girl :hugs: I'm so sorry to hear that you're having this trouble! The good thing is that modern care has come such a long way and the vast majority of pregnancies with antibodies go extremely well.

There's a really good isoimmunisation group on the baby centre website, and the people there are very knowledgeable and supportive. I hope it's helpful to you!

Please keep us updated xox

https://community.babycenter.com/groups/a2988455/antibody_isoimmunisation_rh_and_others
 
Update: I have my first apt with the specialist on the 23rd at 8 am. I'm scared to go.
 
Just talk to her receptionist and I guess my dr will be doing a u/s for me that day too. So I will be having two that week.
 
So to make things worse I am sure I over did it yesterday. I walk everyday but we decided to climb a hill and it was hard the way we went, but made it. Then a while later I noticed that there blood on my underwear. Not a lot but there. Now today I'm aching everytime I stand. There is a lot of pressure.

Talk to the dr and he doesn't seemed to concerned to send me for a scan. So rest I must.
 
I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best for you and your little one. xox

Maybe the bleeding was just a burst blood vessel? I had a bit of bleeding and that's what my doctor thought it might be. She said it's common.
 
The bleeding stopped thank goodness!! They didn't find any reason for it so that is good. I did put it all in my journal. ;)
 

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