Hii :)

[Waiting4Bump]

Hi Everyone,

I can't remember if I have posted in here before, but I thought I should do it now..

Basically, I'm 21 and I split up with the FOB, about 3 months ago, because he was an idiot. Yes, I have days when I wonder why I split up with him, because I "need" him & so does Lola, but most of the time now I'm alright.

So I just wanted to say hello to everyone, & look forward to getting to know you all soon x

 

[teal]

Hello

I'm sure you'll do fine on your own! I've not spoken to my ex since the middle of June (when I first found out I was pregnant). At first I felt really overwhelmed but as time goes on I feel better about it. We don't need him!

xx

 

[Waiting4Bump]

Oh, mine keeps trying to contact me, but I have been ignoring him recently & the numbers of texts and calls are going down!

You're right, we are all better off without idiots in our lives! x

 

[lou_w34]

Hellos

Same age as me! lol

Youll be fine! Give it time and everything will feel so much easier

 

[Waiting4Bump]

It's nice to have people the same age who know what you are going through isn't it? And you have a little pink bump too!
I'm so excited! xx

 

[lou_w34]

Me too!!! Heehee! Yep shes pink! Though people keep trying to scare me saying she may come out a boy after ive brought everything pink! heehee

Love the name youve picked by the way! Its also the name of a jacqueline wilson book, and the main characters name, i used to read it when i was younger lol

 

[dizzyangel]

Oh, mine keeps trying to contact me, but I have been ignoring him recently & the numbers of texts and calls are going down!

You're right, we are all better off without idiots in our lives! x

sorry to moan and put a downer on your post but im so jealous that FOB is bothered, honestly you should make the most of it.
i never got that from 'daddy' no matter how much i wanted him to!

first time ive looked on this forum so im sorry you've got my first reply.

Hope everything goes absolutely brilliant for you!!!
xx

 

[expecting09]

Me too!!! Heehee! Yep shes pink! Though people keep trying to scare me saying she may come out a boy after ive brought everything pink! heehee

Everyone keeps saying that to me too, after Heather on eastenders haha!!

and hiya! the girls here are so supportive!! we don't need the FOB's!!

 

[Waiting4Bump]

Dizzyangel He doesn't want anything to do with Lola though. He wants me, apparently. Said he wanted to be involved one minute, & the next he isn't interested It's driving me up the wall! x

LOL Funny you should say that, people have been telling me they still think Lola will be a boy! Why do they do it to us hey?
And I love the name Scarlett, it was on my list as well! x

 

[lou_w34]

My ex was the same, one minute he wants me back, but nothing to do with bubs (i dont no how that would work in his head??? lol) and then the next he hated me, I just ignore him now, it makes for a stress free life.

I no after heather in eastenders its all people go on at me about!! grrr lol I think they just like to tease us! Ahwell, if she comes out a boy theyll just have to buy me boy things! haha

Thankyous I love it, i know quite a few other people who were thinking about scarlett aswell heehee

 

[Waiting4Bump]

My ex was the same, one minute he wants me back, but nothing to do with bubs (i dont no how that would work in his head??? lol) and then the next he hated me, I just ignore him now, it makes for a stress free life.

I no after heather in eastenders its all people go on at me about!! grrr lol I think they just like to tease us! Ahwell, if she comes out a boy theyll just have to buy me boy things! haha

Thankyous I love it, i know quite a few other people who were thinking about scarlett aswell heehee

Pain in the bum aren't they, men! I always tell people that I wish I had never had anything to do with him, & then tell them that actually, No! I am glad I was with him, because he has given me the most amazing gift! My little Princess!
Gosh, I'm such a mushy person!

Exactly, if Lola ends up being a boy, then I will cope..I have a friend who is having her little boy this month, so I'm sure there will be plenty of boys clothes to go round!

There is nobody round here called Scarlett really. That's why I loved it, but then I went for Lola, even though there are at least 3 children I know called that! Go figure! x

 

[teal]

A lot of pink bumps in this thread! Mine is blue My mum said if the baby comes out a girl then she better like blue xx

 

[lou_w34]

A lot of pink bumps in this thread! Mine is blue My mum said if the baby comes out a girl then she better like blue xx

haha my mum said if mine comes out a boy 'he' better like wearing pink!! haha

But yeah they are a pain! and i get what you mean, i wish id never met him! But then im gratefull for my lil girl! I just wish she had someone elses dna heehee. But they way i see it is, they are the ones missing out, whereas we are gaining so much heehee

Haha! it has became quite popular! Maybe its because of the book haha

 

[Waiting4Bump]

We can just do a clothes swap! If you end up with a Girl and either of us a boy, we are sorted!

I've got quite a lot of neutral stuff as well, just incase! x

 

[lou_w34]

Sounds like a plan!!

I dont Soon as i heard the word 'girl' my brain turned pink and its all i seem to be able to buy! haha

 

[teal]

I have a few neutral clothes but I've not found many I like. Could be that urge I have to just buy blue

I think it was mothercare I was in and I was looking at the whites and lemons and I couldn't decide if they really were neutral or looked on the girly side.

 

[Waiting4Bump]

See, that's what I always think. I have got cute Lemon & white hats from Mothercare for little Miss, but I always think they look a bit more "girly" even though they are meant to be for both sexes.

Still cute though on tiny newborns! x

 

[dizzyangel]

i dont get how that would work either - stupid men!! best off without!

well i didnt want to know if i was having a boy or a girl, it would just be my luck they would have got it wrong but i kinda hoped it was a boy i was having, i had no girls names whatsoever! turns out bump was a girl

what about greens? or are they to boyish??
xx

 

[teal]

Some of my neutral clothes for my little boy are green I thought green was more neutral than the lemons xx

 

[Waiting4Bump]

Yeah I think green is more neutral, although it does depend on which shade of green as well..But yeah, I do like green on boys & girls! So sweet. x